Wednesday, August 11, 2010

How to make up with a friend...but it was his fault?!?

okay, so i have this friend called Oliver. he is really nice normally but i fell out with him today when he totally screwed up a film project we did together. I'm really passionate about film and what he was doing seriously annoyed me. he basically dominated the whole project even though he had no vision, and ruined all of our hard work with his bad taste and stubbornness. what i find most irritating though was that i put so much effort into our work (i even worked through my lunch break) and when he screwed it up he didn't even care. he walked away to join another group leaving me to sort out the mess he had made in under half and hour!


he is really sensitive and stubborn so i know he wont appologise - and to be honest i got a bit heated with him at end of it, so it wasn't ALL his fault (but it was mostly). I still want us to be friends! i just know now we cannot work well together (it was like two bulls in a fighting ring!) How can i make up with him?How to make up with a friend...but it was his fault?!?
be the bigger person and apologize for raging out on him, then explain how serious you are and that you would like his full attention and cooperation... =)How to make up with a friend...but it was his fault?!?
show him your kinda peeved at first, then talk to him, and dont work in groups together. my friend and i are so competitive, we try not to work against eachother and our realationship works fine
guys arent too easy to make up with. cause most of the time they'll never admit the things that they did wrong.so i think u 2 should talk about this. state the things that u did or said that was wrong and apologize.u should say that u still wanna be friends. and if hes the type of guy i think he is, he should probabally apologize for wat he did, or he'll forgive u and then later say. u know when u said/did (insert wat he did here) that made me feel (insert how it made u feel here) and i'd kinda wanna know what was going on, cause thats not really like u.





hope my advise works
Murderous rampage
i say be the better person and just confront him about it and appoligize for being mad at him, it'll get over faster and things will be back to normal fawster but it sounds like to me that you were not helping the situation and sounds like you can be a little bossy and stuborn, it is his project too. so dont pick him to be your partner next time, you saw what happened this last time.
I would just say, ';I miss our friendship, %26amp; I'll forgive what you did, if you still want to be friends';,If he cares, he'll come around!
took off that pride and approach him
I would just go up to him and have a brief talk. I wouldn't take blame, or give blame. Just try to put it aside.





Say, listen Oliver, that project didn't go so well, but I would like to still be friends, Hope there are no hard feelings.


And what ever else you have to talk about.





TopCatt

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