Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Should I make up with my friend after our argument?

My friend and i have been mates for 15 years we fell out over a month ago and i havent been in contact since, we argued because her boyfriend of 14 years cheats on her constantly and dosent come in till 5am and wont explain to her where hes been finally after another night out of listening to her going on about how he had been staying till all hours and calling her names the usual stuff i lost my temper and told her about a few occasions i knew about when he had been with other women (other people have seen him up to no good) she went mad and says I have it in for him, i dont,but i care about her a lot and dont want to sit by as this *** hole takes the mickey out of her! Its so annoying because deep down she knows what he is but chooses to ignore it and make excuses for him! To be honest its been peaceful since i ve fell out with her but the thing is her mothers dying of lung cancer and i have been there the past few months supporting her, shall i get in touch and make up or leave it?Should I make up with my friend after our argument?
Yes even tho you know about the guy you should be willing to let her find out for herself.We can only tell people what we know and the rest is up to them.Since her mother is dying of cancer you need to try to get along with her but i would just watch and talk to her a little less and then if she does get hurt she will tell you that you were right.No sense ruinng a good friendship over it .Good luck and hope all works out for you and her.Should I make up with my friend after our argument?
I think you should..try and explain to her again that you know for sure that he was cheating on her..and you dont want to lose her as a friend over that bastard..!..you to hav been friends for to long to fight over a man..!..





good luck..!
your in the wrong. she needs you to be there when she can face the obvious. nnot have you blow up and shove it in her face. your job as friend is to comfort. not to admonish her lifestyle. or her love interest. you may be right. but as a friend you failed her and should swallow your pride and explain that you love her and maybe find a way to help her in seeing her value as a person.
my opinion...certainly get in touch and be there for your friend. BUT... (you knew it was coming) Mind your own business. she's a big girl...let her make her own mistakes (as bad as they might be) and be there for her as a friend.
You claim to be her friend? Be her friend.You do not live her life or make her choices for her...BUT you are suppose to be there if you are a real friend.
yes!! shes going through a hard time especially if what ur saying is true!! u need to help her and support her.. not leave her.. she needs u probably the most right now.. even if she doesn't realize it now!!! belive me she'll thank u later!

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