Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do I make up with my friend?

Things have gotten so bad over the past few days, and its just discusting.


I really want to make up, but she keeps telling me I'm a b**ch.


She even got her big sister involved.





How do I convince her to just forget about it all?How do I make up with my friend?
Admit your mistakes. Try and put a stop to them and go and be the first one to say sorry and ask for her forgiveness without offending her.How do I make up with my friend?
Maybe if she's doing stuff like that she's not a good friend to have and you'd be better off having better quality friends... but if there was something you did wrong and you know that then all you can do is try to make her know that you are genuinely sorry. and you have to be completely sorry regardless of anything she says to you. Be the bigger person, suck it up, take all the blame even if your part is only a little and work your friendship until you can talk about this calmly again and have both of you admit your faults (this will take a while and don't rush it). And remember, even if you do all of that half of the relationship is up to her so you must be ready to accept a yes or a no.
There are people who are really hard to forget over things. Most especially not so good things. It sticks to them. Just give her times for the meantime. She is mad right now and mad people doesn't listen. They have ears for themselves only. No matter what reasons or explanation you make she will not understand that because she is deaf by her emotions.





Just give her time and space for the meantime. Do your own stuff and talk to your other friends for awhile.





When she's cooled down you can try to approch her again. If she didn't, then forget her. As a friend should know how to forget mistakes and ready to take you completely no matter what you do and who you are. Pride and selfishness should never get in to the friendship. It should always love and understands the people within the circle of friends :D
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