Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How to make up with an old friend?

i had this good friend but because we had some misunderstanding we stopped talking, recently i've received an email from her just saying hello, i'd really like to make up with her, how do i go about it?How to make up with an old friend?
Let bygones be bygones. Don't open up open wounds. Blah Blah Blah.





I think you should just let it go and don't bother mentioning what happened unless she brings it up. Sometimes it's just better to keep it quiet. Whatever happened, happened. She forgave you so that's why she wrote you an e-mail. Just write her back and maybe invite her to lunch or dinner at a restaurant. Just start talking away but try not to bring up what happened.How to make up with an old friend?
Tell her that you miss talking to her.
maybe you could talk to her about wat happened and try to start over. It's clear to see that she's ready to talk again because she sent you a message.
mail to her just saing hello
You already receive an email from her meaning she forgive and forget abt the whole past scenario...now u can be like before, and u cld apologise for the whole misunderstanding thing too and start off with a good convo.
well it depens on what it was about BUT I THINK THAT MAYBE IF YOU TALK TO HER ABOUT IT AND EXPLAIN YOUR SELF TO HER TO FIX THAT MISUNDERSTANDING AND IF YOU WAS WRONG TELL HER THAT YOUR SORRY AND WOULD LOVE TO MAKE UP.8-)
Talk to her. Tell her you are sorry for anything you said or did in the past to jeopardize your friendship and you really miss her. Since she sent the 1st email sounds like she is missing you too.
dont discuss it


you will eventually end up in a arguement


just talk to her softly and camely


ask the tippical questions like how are you


and hows life and everything


soon enought your friendship will re-join
It's best not to discuss the conflict you just had in any great detail just now, if at all. People generally know they had some part in the fuss but are ashamed to admit it -- it takes two to tango, as they say.





When you receive a nice or even neutral e-mail from a former friend who you were once close to, it's best to respond in a similar manner -- sort of neutral. You might say, ';Glad to hear from you, I am doing fine.';





I once broke the ice in a similar situation and the response was a list of things I must do to reconnect to a former close friend. I was shocked -- first that the person would have the gall to do that and second, that he did not see his own complicity in the disagreement that brought down the friendship. His reaction was completely out of line and very hurtful. The friendship has ended.
she is ready to talk to you again and maybe start everything all over again.. so it is up to you now, if you really want to make up with her then talk to her.. she is willing to 'open up' and maybe it's not the easiest thing for her to do too .. now are you willing to 'open up' ? :)





Good luck :)
be cool.for the time being let the fight out of your conversation and start new.
You gotta her email. Human touch - call her. Very simple. Next you both unite again.

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