How can i make up with my best friend?

me and my best friend have had a huge fight and we were both complete and utter bitches to each other. it was over text. i called her a whore, *****, chubby, hairy and stuck up. but the bitchiness really started when she went personal, about my anger problems, saying Oh don't wanna set your anger problems off, and saying, i advice you to go see someone. she said i was stuck up, a control freak, saying that i should just go cry and things. i know i was a ***** but anger problems are such a sensitive area for me and she knew that. then she was like your crying just cos i called you a *****? im not even crying! then i was SO sad so i said, HOW STUPID ARE YOU? IM CRYING COS I LOST THE BEST FRIEND I EVER HAD AND I WAS SUCH AN IDIOT, NOT JUST BECAUSE YOU CALLED ME A *****. then she was like, oh yeah that's sweet im not gonna say your a ***** cos your not, then she said, but your a ***** im not going to lie. im just so upset about all of this and i keep saying that i want to sort this out maturely but she keeps blabbing on. when we don't fight she is so nice and sweet, but right now i need my best friend, and she's the one im fighting with, how can i sort things out more maturely? what can i say?How can i make up with my best friend?
You said some hurtful things, she said some hurtful things. you now wish you hadn't been so bitchy.


Now get rid if your guilt, get rid of your stress, do the right and mature thing.


Call her up. Apologise unconditionally. Don't expect an immediate response. Don't expect your apology to be accepted even. you said some nasty things.


If you are lucky, your apology will be accepted 'eventually' and you will get your best friend back.


Remember, apologies must be unconditional to mean anything. Don't make excuses for your actions. Don't blame your best friend (this is your apology! Your friend is the only one that can apologise for her actions and it is not your place when you are opologising to effectively pick another fight!).


If you really went too far and you really have lost your best friend then learn from this and at least you will have done the right by apologising for your actions.


Good luck, take a gulp and call NOW!!How can i make up with my best friend?
she cares love, whats your anger all about, i cant tell from the limited info, maybe you need conselling, tell her you are soorry and you will work on your anger and please can she help you, if she says yes she is a true friend....we all argue, you are almost saying its your fault, now look into why and sort it for your sake hon if no one elses x
you both seem to be enraging each other with


all the petty name calling.


be mature about this,


arrange to talk together, FACE TO FACE.


you both need to apologise to each other


for everything and say because you were


upset you said things that weren't true...


if she doesn't want to sort this out maturely,


then maybe it's time you moved on and


found someone who can forgive and forget.


no one is perfect and we all have bad days


and say things we don't mean, mistakes


have been made.





it happens to everyone, but next time


you have an argument, try to be less


immature about what you say and maybe


just don't say anything at all to each other...


and hopefully you can sort out your problems


in a more civil way,





hope you sort this out,


good luck,


Chloe %26lt;3
You don't talk to your best friend by calling names to each other.That is the best way to lose one So you both need to stop the drama in your life and say your sorry
You called her some not very nice names %26amp; maybe she's just as sensitive about her weight as you are about your temper? Friends make mistake and say stupid things. Sounds like you're both guilty of that. But friends also kiss %26amp; make up because life's too short to hold grudges. My best advice is to be the bigger person %26amp; apologize for what you said to your best friend. Hopefully she'll apologize for what she said %26amp; you can go back to hanging out %26amp; have good times together. In the future tho, you both gotta work a little harder to respect each other's sensitivity %26amp; issues. Nobody's perfect %26amp; I wouldn't make this spat bigger than it is. **** happens. Just say sorry %26amp; keep steppin together. Wishing you the best!