so we had a fight because she ditched me for her boyfriend. again. and i guess she thinks i criticise her too much and find fault in her too much, but i really did not do anything wrong and she really hurt me by saying that im not her main priority anymore. i am not wrong at all but i want to be friends again what do i do?How do i make up with my best friend?
You should both find time to spend with each other. If she wants to spend time with her boyfriend more than you all the time, then you should get the message that she likes him and start hanging out with other people. She'll come around. Just remember that boyfriends come in and out of your life, but true friends stay there forever.How do i make up with my best friend?
that sucks! she clearly has her priorities out of order, and if she's willing to forget about you, then i suggest you do the same to her.
You expect to be held over her boyfriend? Keep in mind this is someone she might be planning to spend the rest of her life with. (Not meant to be offensive.)
If she's ALWAYS picking her boyfriend over you, I suppose then you could get annoyed, but if it's only occasional it's not... a bad thing...
I'm not sure if you're talking if you already planned something or not. If she planned something with you and just went to her boyfriend's instead, that's not acceptable and very rude on her part.
If you want to be friends, apologize and ask to hang out. Maybe if you ask her to go places more often she'll find some time to spend with you.
1. If she has a boyfriend then he is her main priority. You need to accept that. You can still be her best friend, but the boyfriend has priority, however, if the two of you had plans and she ditched you then that is wrong on her part.
2. If she thinks you criticize her too much and find fault in her, then there must be something to it, so saying you're not wrong at all I think is not quite being honest with yourself.
3. If you want to continue to be friends, you apologize even if you do think you are not wrong. Friends do that. If you apologize to her she most likely will apologize to you as well.
I have a best friend, too, and he has a girlfriend, but he still makes time for me. And, sometimes we do quarrel but our friendship gets us through those little spats, because one of us apologizes first and then the other does also.
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