How to make up with a friend after a fight?

I had a really good male friend, we got into a huge fight when he started dating some girl and essentially stopped talking to me. I was going through some terrible things in my life at the time and really needed his support as a friend. When I tried talking to him he said he would try to be more understanding, but then didn't do anything to change. Finally I told him I couldn't have him in my life anymore, because he obviously wasn't as good a friend as he made me believe he was. Its been over two years since we've talked, even though I see him around from time to time. I don't want to be his friend but I also don't like this awkward feeling that I have, this feeling that lost someone who was so special to me at one point. I also don't want to feel uncomfortable whenever I see him. I want to talk to him to tell him that I've forgiven him and that I'm sorry for the harsh things I said. I guess I don't know how to approach him now since its been so long. Any thoughts or suggestions?How to make up with a friend after a fight?
...two years?...if you don't want him as a friend...it would seem you have already accomplished this....move on and forget it....he has......How to make up with a friend after a fight?
christ forget about this guy and move on.
write a letter
you either have to move on with your life or just come up to him and say '; we used to be good friends, i'm sorry for everything that went on between us, hope there's no hard feelings , just wanted to let you know that i wish to remember you as a good friend, best of luck
Well, my question is, how come after so long he hasnt said anything to you. I mean, if you were as important to him and he was to you then shouldnt he have at least tried to keep you as a friend. Or talk to you after awhile? I mean, yeah you could say sorry. But what happens when you need him again and he flakes. Maybe just do what you said, clear the air. But dont put all kinds of faith in your friendship again cuz you could just end up upset again.
Its been a long time since youve spoken so its normal to feel wierd going up and talking. But you haev to build up the courage and explain all the things youve asked in this question like I was going through some terrible things in my life at the time and really needed his support as a friend and I don't want to be his friend but I also don't like this awkward feeling that I have, this feeling that lost someone who was so special to me at one point. I also don't want to feel uncomfortable whenever I see him. I want to talk to him to tell him that I've forgiven him and that I'm sorry for the harsh things I said.
well go up to him and say





Though we may not be good friends like we used to be, I also don't like the awkwardness between us, yes I know are friendship had some struggles, but we don't have to pretend that we don't no eachother, because That is just ridiculous, and I was hoping that we could just chat a little more often';





Something like that... I hope it helps :
|Say sorry,





Saying sorry may not fix it but it is a start and and opening from where you can discuss and listen to your and his point of view.
NEXT TIME YOU SEE HIM FIND YOUR BALLS EVEN THOUGHT YOU DONT LITERALLY HAVE THEM WALK UP TO HIM AND TELL HIM LOOK I JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU IM SORRY FOR THE THINGS THAT I HAVE SAID IN THE PAST BUT I FORGIVE YOU AND HOPE THAT YOU COULD FIND IT IN YOU TO FORGIVE ME.
I would first just act casually. Just say hi are something. Then I would talk a bit more everytime either of us saw each other, but when you first say hi and maybe four more times after that try to get him to say hi to you. I'm not saying to do anything you wouldn't do, maybe you could just ';accidentally ';shine something near his eyes with a watch or something. Then you guys should be talking so much it would form into a casual conversation and he might want to try to become your friend again. But if he doesn't do anything then you might want to decide that he wasn't a very good friend in the first place.