Monday, August 16, 2010

How do i make up with my friend?

The day before yesterday i asked a question about my friend dressing her son like a girl. it is under parenting, grade schooler, one day ago. but i had no right to tell her how to raise her ';daughter';. we had an argument about this and she wont talk to me no more. do you think she will ever forgive me?How do i make up with my friend?
Yes, she'll get over it. But, she needs to understand that her son is a boy..not a girl. So, that's her problem not yours. So, just don't talk about it anymore, even though you were being a good friend by telling her the truth. Maybe she wants her son to be gay?How do i make up with my friend?
Umm i think she is right....learn to keep ur thoughts to urself.....try apologizing
Make up with friends are serious business.
Just appologise to her and say that what u did was not my business and was wrong
just tell her you are sorry and if she was a true friend she will forgive you....do you know what i am saying??
idk but have you said sorry??? even on a message? im guessing you have and after a while she should get over it
Leave him or her alone for a few days. That way, you are giving him his or her space and time to cool down.


After about two days, ask your friend to talk. Tell them what is bothering you and listen to what they have to say.


Let him or her alone for another day or so. Walk up to them when you have some privacy and try not to catch them off-guard.


Tell your friend that you will really try to fix the issues that have messed up your friendship and ask him or her to be friends again.


If they say no, then calmly ask why not. If the answer is blunt, like, ';I just do not want to be friends with you anymore,'; then that is that, but if the answer is complex and silly, ask why not again and vow to try harder in the long run to be a good friend.


If he or she concedes, then you have your friend back! However, be careful the relationship will be delicate for a few weeks.


If she is avoiding you like the plague, then kind of treat him as a brand new friend. It's like walking around her on eggshells, because you might do something wrong and make her flow further away. Be persistant, but careful as well.





Even if your friend declines your gracious offer, continue to be polite and courteous as this will make her respect you and, in time, possibly make her realize that she have made a mistake! This does not mean you should hang around, twiddling your thumbs until she comes around; go find some new friends to help you through! Make a new friend. If your old friend is mean, why waste your time trying to be friends with someone who hates you?





I hope I helped, this situation kind of stinks!! :(
This is just a big mis-understanding! She thinks that you are critizing her and her kid. Mom's are always trying to do their best; trying to be the best mom there is.





I would call her leave a message and tell her that it was just a simple question and say your SORRY! If she doesn't forgive you about this you should move on and just make sure you watch what you say about other people's kids for the next time! :)
Um IDK but I think you should tell her your sorry it really is none of your business
Yeah I agree with most people here, the only thing you can do is apologise to her because you hurt her feelings. But do not be sorry over your good advice of asking her to dress her son like a boy ! In time, she will understand you have her best interest at heart.
okay you no that you had no right to do it why did you do it later when she it over it may be its best next time you'll no your place
Try to apologize . If she takes a while to talk to you that's okay. Just remember to be patient. Honestly what you said wasn't that bad but, next time think about what you say before you say it because sometimes people take statements the wrong way.





:) Best of luck.
Well first of all you don't sound very sorry if your referring to her son as her ';daughter';. So you should change your attitude and if she won't talk to you, then write her a letter or send her an email apologizing to her for criticizing the way she dresses her child (which by the way is none of your business) and make sure she knows that it won't happen again. She'll forgive you if your sincere with the apology and you try to make it up to her.
what exactly did you say? it depends on what you said...she might have blown it out of proportion. One day I put on something that my sons father said made him look like a girl...I didnt' take offense...i just laughed...so it really depends on how you said it.
well i think that you were in the right, she's ruining that kids life. have you other people read the other question? but if you want to apologize just say something like, you were right, i was wrong, yada yada yada... wont happen again.
I'm sure that she doesn't have a lot of friends and eventually will forgive you. However, will you forgive yourself if the child grows up disturbed and in need of therapy? Why would she dress teh kid as a girl if it's a boy?

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