You apologize and the person give you a cold-shoulder.
How do you deal with the hurt of a cold-shoulder?
Do you just write it off as, 'this person isnt worth my time'?
Can you learn to trust the person again?
What if I am afraid that I will hurt the person again?How do you make up after a big fight with a close friend?
Well...maybe i would wait a while...see if they're ok after a little time. I wouldn't say they aren't worth my time, because if i'd hurt them i owe them happiness (well that's how i'd feel). I would maybe not trust them as much but still keep a good relationship with them, and if i was afraid of hurting them i'd let them know that because i wouldn't want them to think i'm staying away from them for no reason.How do you make up after a big fight with a close friend?
I don't get into big fights with close friends.....
my problems are of a different nature
but I would advise you to just apologize, you've done your part
if your friend gives you a cold-shoulder, then he/she is too ignorant to accept your apology, so leave it be
or maybe your apology was not sincere.....if it wasn't, you should apologize sincerely, and if still they turn away, then that's their problem
you don't really need to worry yourself if your 'close' friends will have an attitude like that
or maybe I'm just not old enough to understand all this =S
well the person wouldn't be my close friend if she gives me a cold shoulder!
i would say well at least i tried and allah has forgiven me and thats all thats matters
Well, if someones mad at me, I say sorry and make a sad face. Thats how people forgive me but if that doesnt work then I
- Tell them that my aunt said its not good to be mad at people
- Tell them that they mean alot to me and I cant live with their anger
- Buy them a gift or a card
If the person is worth your time then she/he will def. forgive you.
I guess try talking to them. But, I don't have to worry about that, because I am not really close to my friends to hurt their feelings and I have mainly acquaintances.
if the person doesnt accept the apology i jus ignore them...dont need mates like that. usually when i get into an argument with my friends we just both say that we are BOTH right and jus ignore what we argued about. sometimes its not as simple as that tho
That happens alot with me, but I just give them some space then they come back to me and apologize for the fight and for giving me the cold-shoulder.
if that person is really worth your time, and a good friend then write it and apologize. it is life somebody always gets hurt. i don't know the rest?
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