What would you do? Re: trying to make-up w/friend?

I had this huge crush on this girl. We went on a few dates and then we became friends (I 've known her for over 3 years) However, I was still pretty crazy about her (and I mean crazy). So one day I was just thinking about a few things and I started questioning whether we were really friends. I felt that she treated me differently from the other people in her life, and was often inconsiderate and insensitive. So a couple of months ago I sent her a rather harsh e-mail basically letting her know exactly how I felt. 2 days later I apologized, but ended it with a I don't know if I should talk to you anymore. So 4 months have past and I now feel that I have made a mistake. So I sent her a text message (hi, how are you..) She hasn't replied. So I called her and she didn't pick up. So now I 'm wondering what I should do. Should I call and leave her a message? The thing is I really care about this person. I've given up on trying to be more than a friend cuz that's not going 2 happen.What would you do? Re: trying to make-up w/friend?
chanced are, she isnt talking to you because you said you didnt want to. or, she could still be mad at you. if you were just saying how you felt, then you didn't do anything worng....so dont back down by saying you were wrong. you should call her and explain to her you might have been out of line....you did say it was harsh....and say how much you care about her and ask her to call. if she doesnt, then there isnt anything else you can do. you cant force someone to be friends with you....and if she was mean to you, do you really want her around again?What would you do? Re: trying to make-up w/friend?
when you next c her, pull to aside and pour it all out. Im in the same position.
You've pretty much ruined your chances. She views you as a dillhole. It sounds like you were a bit of a drama queen with your exit, and she may be a girl who won't stand for it. You can't decide when you do and don't want to be friends with her. Believe it or not, she's a human being too and quite capable of making her own deicisions. It only takes one person to initiate an end of a friendship- that was you. But it takes two people to begin it again, and since she already knows what you want, she now holds all the cards. Stop harassing her (which is what she'll view it as), and just give her time to think about it. Do one last thing- send her an e-mail, or a letter letting her know that you feel horrible about what occurred four months ago and you miss her, and that if she's willing to forgive you, you'd like another chance at being her friend. Then back off and let her make her decision. If she never contacts you again- deal with it. If she does contact you, well, then, you have my advice to thank- AND DON'T BLOW IT THIS TIME!