About a year ago I met a girl, who at the time I was attracted to. We quickly became good friends and grew close during the summer of 2007. At the time I had been going to college in NY, and we would hang out with friends at bars, concerts, plays, the beach etc. I enjoyed her company and she enjoyed mine. Later in the fall we attempted to start a relationship, but quickly found out it would not work out. I was mildly heartbroken, but the friendship we developed was strong, and we continued to hang out, for a while, that is. Early in the winter of 2008, through a series of minor misunderstanding, in which we were both at fault, we started to grow distant and eventually stopped talking. I have since graduated and moved back to DC, where I grew up. I recently found out from a mutual friend that she is spending a semester in Washington, and this piqued my interest. I felt that honestly we had spent more time as good friends, than anything else. I would like to call her up and see if we could hang out. I remember fondly our playful misadventures, not but a year ago. I valued her friendship, and whatever the reason we might have had resentment was, I cannot remember. I'd like to rekindle the friendship and camaraderie we developed, but am worried that she may still be angry, or that she may think that I am still romantically interested. I consider myself a fairly reasonable person, and I can say with a certain amount of confidence that, that is not my intention. Still I am apprehensive as to how I should move forward. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated. I need advice on how to make up with a friend.?
she wont hav anytin up her mind now..........well.......instead of talkin 2 her directly u can send her a letter not sms.........or else u can call.......but ask her sorry.........and say her dat it was ur fault.......u had misunderstood her.......etc........say her watevr u feel and want 2 say...everytin u wrote here...etc......lik u jus want 2 b friends........jus friends.u value her friendship etc........it might work out...........I need advice on how to make up with a friend.?
i think its not a good idea to approach her - she will misread that (no one can really understand your true intention). Yes if life ever throws you 2 together, maybe, but once u have been thru a relationship, then a friendship and yet gone separate ways, probably its meant to be that way!
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