How do I make up with my friend? Listen to my side before answering!?

my friend will invite me a lot of nice places and when i go i feel like i am not as good as she is and that she looks down on me. Her parents spoil her! (she owns many designer brand-names) (were 12) I try to invite her to go places with me and to come over and she goes No i don't want to. I tell her it hurts my feelings and she goes whatever i cant deal with this and hangs up or walks away. She acts like nothing hurts her and that if i stopped being her friend it wouldn't even phase her. don't say she isn't a real friend. (trust me I get it) don't ask me why I want to be her friend (i don't even know) How do I show her she has really hurt my feelings. I tried apologizing but she's ignoring me! Please also tell me what I have doneHow do I make up with my friend? Listen to my side before answering!?
I had the same problem. If you're in middle school, have you tried to go to the councilor to sort things out. Maybe there's a problem in her life and she's feeling insecure, ask her what's wrong. Discuss this with her parents. Find out from her closest friends what's up. (If they're willing to tell you.) Are you close? Maybe hang out with her more even though if it bugs her, don't walk away continue. She may open up and realize how great you are. :)How do I make up with my friend? Listen to my side before answering!?
Hey Maddie,


well this is a difficult one because someone like this may not be worth being friends with, but if you still want to be friends with her, maybe next time she invited you to go somewhere, you can say that you don't want to, and than she will understand how you feel when she does that.


Good luck and I hope this helps.





always,


Layla
Send out feelers via other friends. Pick up the phone. Write a note. Send an email. Make plans to meet at a neutral place. Apologize. Forgive and forget.
It may not be that she is intentionally hurting your feelings, she may just not hold any interest in the same type of things you do. Next time you speak to her just say ';Hey it was kind of a bummer you couldn't go with me to _____, maybe next time we can catch a movie?/See a museum/ eat at some groovy, yet not over the top restaurant'; or something. If her family really does have a lot of money, she just may not understand what it is like to be without it.





At worst you can wait until she is in collage! She'll have to hunker down and chow on ramen and kraft dinner with the rest of the world!
seems like you're kissing up to her.





1. try giving her a taste of her own medicine and not hanging out with her all the time so she can know how it feels.


2. stop apologizing and talking to her and she WILL come to you. if she doesn't then that shows her true colors