making up with friends is about meeting halfway. if she wont talk to you then dont budge. you stepped up to the plate and attempted to apologize. if she doesnt want to make an effort to talk to you then she's probably stubborn and still angry or she doesnt care enough to try. no matter what dont beg and try to keep in mind that perception screws with our head. the whose right and wrong thing should be worked out between you. you have to wait for her to talk to you. dont push the issue until shes readyHow do i make up with a best friend even if it wasn't completely my fault?
Good friendships are well worth fighting for. But, if you have apologized and asked her forgivness and she is turning her back on you, then walk away. It sounds to me like this girl has some control issues and she may be wanting your friendship back, but she may be making you beg a little too much. THAT is not a good friend. Give her time to get over this...but no more begging on your part. You sound like a good friend... don't lose that quality. And don't let other people control the goodness in you.
you've already done your part-you asked for an apology, you've shown her you were sorry. if after all of these, she won't accept you back as friend, you have no choice but to move on and live your own life away from her. who knows, later on, when the time is right, you two will get back together as friends. maybe for her, your friendship is not that important. anyway, she has her reasons. it's time for you to move on with your life.
same thing happened with my friend a few months back, i apologized for the misunderstanding and explained my side, she didn't want to hear it she was like whatever (we were online at the time) she signed off on me, i sent her an email explaining it was a misunderstanding told her that i value her as a friend and i hope we don't lose our friendship over something so petty......she wound up contacting me a few days later, but to be honest, things aren't the same between us because im hurt that she went off on me the way she did and that she me feel like crap and made me cry.....
depending on how you and your best friends friendship was before this, would determine how i would react, if this was one of your first arguments, i would apologize like you have, maybe send an email (no begging) and tell her you value her and her friendship, however, if this is something that happens alot between you two (her freaking out on you and making you beg for forgiveness) i wouldn't stay friends with her, i know it's hard, but that isn't a true friend......
i hope everything works out for you
I am in a similar situation, except she refuses to take any responsibility for what she has done and expects me to completey kiss up and apologize. Give her a few more days to cool off, and if she won't come to her senses and continues to be stubborn, forget her as a friend. Trust me, it will cause a lot less pain :)
that is kinda like me atm and i want to get back wit her as a friend so we can chill like maybe the old day but rarely.i have the crying feelings too.btw it depends how she treats you personal.let her rest and ask her at school if your shy do it on aim or mysp if ur block and remove then ask her friends to deliver her a note or try to find her when she is alone or find her in class or aftersoon. good luck
It sounds like she's a little stubborn D:
If apologizing doesn't work, wait for her to calm down, maybe being pushy while she's still steaming won't work? Once she calms down, maybe talk to her again or let her talk to you.
You have apologized....the ball is in your friends court now....it's up to her to grow up!
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