How can I gain my confidence back? I feel like I'm a failure to humans because I'm childless and single?

I have lost my confidence.


I feel like my ex boyfriend is right about me. When we broke up, my ex boyfriend said I will always be a man's second base and that I'm too ugly to procreate so that's why I don't have kids.





Maybe he's right.Its been almost a year and I'm 28 years old and I'm single with no kids. All of my friends are getting knocked up and some are now engaged to their baby's fathers and I'm still the odd one out.I'm still the lady all alone with no kids.





Im an only child and its important that I marry and reproduce because if I don't marry or reproduce, I will be alone.I don't have neices or nephews to call my own because I'm an only child. I like children, which is why I'm in school for teaching.I want to be a successful preschool teacher with my own daycare center someday.





I feel like I'm a total failure to the human race because I am 28 years old, still in school with no children or man. Some of my relatives look down on me because I don't have a man in my life or children. Some of my relatives are even questioning my sexuality! I have relatives asking if I'm some sort of lesbian and this really hurts me. I have some relatives who don't see me as a real adult because I don't have a husband or children.I even had an aunt tell me ';You have to do what I say because you're still a kid in my book.I don't play with kids so if I ask you to fill my car up with gas just do it and don't talk back.I don't play with kids and you're still a kid to me!';


My aunt still thinks I'm a child just because I don't have kids or a man like her daughter.I have my own apartment,I have a job,and I'm working on my Bachelors in education but she still thinks I'm a child because I have no man or kids.





I have lost confidence.I feel like there is something wrong with me because all my friends and relatives are getting knocked up and engaged to their children's fathers, while I'm still single and childless working on my BA in education and working a nurse aide job with my own place.


I feel like I must be ugly or something.If I was pretty I wouldn't be single.I feel like I'm uglier than Ugly Betty.





I don't want to be some elderly woman with a bunch of cats dressed in housedresses saying ';I never married or had kids.I just had these cats all my life.';





And I'm an only child so yes its important to me to have children and get married.





Only children who don't get married or have kids end up like Dorothy Parker. Dorothy Parker was a famous poet/author and she was miserable.She was an only child who never married or had kids and as a result she was miserable.She was a raging alcoholic.Always drunk and she died at 74 years old age.


I'm sorry but I don't want to be like Dorothy Parker.





How can I gain my confidence back? I feel like my ex was right about me because its almost a year later.My ex said that no man will ever want me and I'm too ugly to procreate.





I want to be a successful teacher,be married to a wonderful man,have 6 to 10 beautiful children,cute pets,be a famous writer,be a famous freelance artist, a freelance photographer,a freelance cook/baker,a freelance cosmetologist/barber,a freelance massage therapist,have my own toiletry business,and have a nice house in Atlanta,GA.


Is this wrong?





How do I gain my confidence in dating back?


How do I gain my confidence to go to parties my friends invite me to?


I have been avoiding my friends because they have children and are getting engaged or they're in serious relationships.


I just cannot go to a baby shower.It just reminds me of how I don't have any kids.


I cannot go to a wedding because it makes me think of how I'm always the bridesmaid and never the bride.


I have been avoiding my friends.How do I gain the confidence to go to parties?


How do I gain confidence to go on dates again?


How can I forget what my ex said?How can I gain my confidence back? I feel like I'm a failure to humans because I'm childless and single?
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Remember that your still young enough to accomplish most of those goals. Your very pretty. Sometimes a guy will try to get a woman to think she is ugly, so she won't leave. You can do a few volunteer internships while in college to start on those goals. If you really want a baby you would have one, but you showed maturity to wait for the right situation. If you had a child right now, you will have to put some of those goals aside.