I'm a nice guy, and want this one girl as more than a friend. Usually, i just end up making friends with girls, so... What can i do to change this?How can i get a girlfriend, rather than just a friend?
you have to put yourself out there more..be more flirty make it obvious but not to the point of desperation
good luck How can i get a girlfriend, rather than just a friend?
ask her out but flirt with her too or else she'll think your not interested and keep you in the friend zone.
Don't be too nice and get her drunk. Then take advantage
You need to flirt rather than just be nice.
if your a nice guy, then your a nice guy
chicks like jerks, no matter what they say
';da jerkness'; comes from within, if you got it then you got it, if you dont then you dont
sucks
go on an outing with a girl and just say it is just for friends and then when the girl is confident with you then maybe you should ask her if we should do it as a couple. and if she doesn't want to it is because she isn't confortable with yuo yet. and she needs more like to get to know you., that is why most girls say so to others because they don't knwo them or is unconfortable.
it's something guys always underrate and never appreciate- the ability to have girls as friends, unless you give polygamy a go, you're only going to have one girlfriend- she's going to want to be pretty special- knowing lots of girls means you're well on the way to finding the one for you.
Often guys who find themselves in the friend zone aren't doing one very important thing- and that is they are not exuding their sexuality, they are restricting it. What i mean by exuding your sexuality is something that is obvious in others when you know what to look for, have a look at guys who pick up a lot of girls, they are always making looks, exchanging glances, winking, standing close to girls they fancy- look at Frenchmen in bars (seriously). Don't be afraid to do this, don't scare the ladies or jump on them- but let women know you're interested in them, don't shy away from giving them compliments and making the odd innuendo.
also- remember, with men and women- word gets around, you don't even have to tell the person you like that you like them, just insinuate it too one of their friends and let the rumour mill do the courting.
Friday, August 20, 2010
My friend is doing a major make-over on me to make boys like me.......What should I do?
She takes me to the movies and I look totally different then I usually do. If my guy friends and I make a date at the movies(just as friends) then my other friend dresses me up to make them like me. They liked the way I used to look. Now if I wanna go to the movies with them then they make up a lie just to ignore me. Please tell me how she can still do a make-over on me, but have my guy friends still friends with me.My friend is doing a major make-over on me to make boys like me.......What should I do?
tell her that you don't want to have a makeover everytime you go out. tell her you want her to still help you get ready but you don't want to dress too nice... you can still have makeovers- but you can save it for the nightclubs.My friend is doing a major make-over on me to make boys like me.......What should I do?
try to have your guy friends understand that ur still the same person but if its that bad, dont do it, its ur choice. you act like you dont want the make-over? if you don't, tell her. don't sweat it, if she's your friend, she'll understand. and if she doesn't, she'll eventually get over it somehow.
Why don't you just try to please yourself and stop with the trying to attract a boy. The only thing boys want to do is get in your panties. Concentrate on your studies at this point in your life.
maybe just start with subtle make overs. you know, work on just your hair or just your eyes or just your clothes. then when they (and you) are used to that change, work on something else.
it sounds like... but it does sound like your friend is trying to make you ugly and taking your friends away from you!
I believe the mistake you're making is not following your spirit. You must have realized that it's the core of the problem. Be yourself, you're a beautiful person and YOU should express that. Your friend should give her opinion and let you make the decisions. You are you, and nobody else can let others know that. I like you and I don't even know what you look like. So express yourself in fashion as well as you do with words. Your friend didn't type them for you did she :P
Follow your spirit
well maybe you should just do your own style or go straight up to your guy friends and tell them that they are acting like jerks just cause your wearing a lil lip gloss lol!! i would personally chew out the guys friends but maybe tell the girls that you dont want to be made over that much to but at least the girls are trying to help!
tell her that you don't want to have a makeover everytime you go out. tell her you want her to still help you get ready but you don't want to dress too nice... you can still have makeovers- but you can save it for the nightclubs.My friend is doing a major make-over on me to make boys like me.......What should I do?
try to have your guy friends understand that ur still the same person but if its that bad, dont do it, its ur choice. you act like you dont want the make-over? if you don't, tell her. don't sweat it, if she's your friend, she'll understand. and if she doesn't, she'll eventually get over it somehow.
Why don't you just try to please yourself and stop with the trying to attract a boy. The only thing boys want to do is get in your panties. Concentrate on your studies at this point in your life.
maybe just start with subtle make overs. you know, work on just your hair or just your eyes or just your clothes. then when they (and you) are used to that change, work on something else.
it sounds like... but it does sound like your friend is trying to make you ugly and taking your friends away from you!
I believe the mistake you're making is not following your spirit. You must have realized that it's the core of the problem. Be yourself, you're a beautiful person and YOU should express that. Your friend should give her opinion and let you make the decisions. You are you, and nobody else can let others know that. I like you and I don't even know what you look like. So express yourself in fashion as well as you do with words. Your friend didn't type them for you did she :P
Follow your spirit
well maybe you should just do your own style or go straight up to your guy friends and tell them that they are acting like jerks just cause your wearing a lil lip gloss lol!! i would personally chew out the guys friends but maybe tell the girls that you dont want to be made over that much to but at least the girls are trying to help!
How can I make up with two of my friends?
I have a friendship group of five, and we've fallen out. They think that they haven't done anything wrong, when they have. We are willing to say sorry and already have but, they won't accept it for a while. I can HATE them sometimes!How can I make up with two of my friends?
if yall want to be friend just leave yalls past in the past, learn from your mistakes and move on, be mature about itHow can I make up with two of my friends?
Find new friends
While it is natural to sometimes hate your friends, if you are having serious problems with them, drop them and find new friends
if yall want to be friend just leave yalls past in the past, learn from your mistakes and move on, be mature about itHow can I make up with two of my friends?
Find new friends
While it is natural to sometimes hate your friends, if you are having serious problems with them, drop them and find new friends
How can you simulate an Asian eye, with make up techniques?
So my friend asked me if it was possible to simulate an Asian eye with make up techniques (No.. it's seriously my friend... I'm already Asian xD). I obviously didn't know, however I thought it would be neat to find out if it's possible for someone with normal eyes (I say normal because I don't know what else to call it) to use a make up technique that makes it look like he or she has Asian eyes.
I know it's possible for someone with Asian eyes to use a make up technique that makes her/his eyes look 'normal'.
Oh, and how exactly would you do it?How can you simulate an Asian eye, with make up techniques?
use eyeliner on your inner rims, your waterline, it should make 'normal' eyes look smallerHow can you simulate an Asian eye, with make up techniques?
I think you can...
Do regular eyeliner but then drag it out...kind of upwards.
1. Cover the entire area around your eyes with liquid foundation or cream concealer, this makes them look less deep set.
2. Apply a mineral powder using a concealer brush over the foundation/concealer to make a good base for the eye makeup to stick to.
3. Using a black (or I use gray) waterproof pencil eyeliner, tight line the eyelid. That means putting it on the waterline.
4. Apply black liquid eyeliner only to the top lid and extend it slightly past the outer corner of the eye in an upward ';flick';.
5. Highlight the arch and inner corner of the eye with white powder or pencil.
I'm hapa and this is what I do when I want to make my eyes look more Asian because they don't look Asian at all.Siam Esteemed Product Co Ltd kick scooter
I know it's possible for someone with Asian eyes to use a make up technique that makes her/his eyes look 'normal'.
Oh, and how exactly would you do it?How can you simulate an Asian eye, with make up techniques?
use eyeliner on your inner rims, your waterline, it should make 'normal' eyes look smallerHow can you simulate an Asian eye, with make up techniques?
I think you can...
Do regular eyeliner but then drag it out...kind of upwards.
1. Cover the entire area around your eyes with liquid foundation or cream concealer, this makes them look less deep set.
2. Apply a mineral powder using a concealer brush over the foundation/concealer to make a good base for the eye makeup to stick to.
3. Using a black (or I use gray) waterproof pencil eyeliner, tight line the eyelid. That means putting it on the waterline.
4. Apply black liquid eyeliner only to the top lid and extend it slightly past the outer corner of the eye in an upward ';flick';.
5. Highlight the arch and inner corner of the eye with white powder or pencil.
I'm hapa and this is what I do when I want to make my eyes look more Asian because they don't look Asian at all.
How do i make it up to my friends?
I have been seeing a married man (my best friends husbands best mate). My best friend and her husband were brought into the situation by my ex who found me and my lover this morning and called them. Now they say they want nothing to do with the situation and don't want to know anything. I feel ashamed that i have hurt them and don't know what to do or how to get some respect back. I feel like i can't face them again because i'm sure they are disgusted at us. What can i do to make this situation go away?How do i make it up to my friends?
Face them. You made your bed, lye in it! You shouldn't have been with a married man ! I have a funny feeling this will not last. Your family will accept you again.You seem kind of shady. So, maybe they won't. Maybe grow up and find some morals?
Face them. You made your bed, lye in it! You shouldn't have been with a married man ! I have a funny feeling this will not last. Your family will accept you again.You seem kind of shady. So, maybe they won't. Maybe grow up and find some morals?
How to make friend with that who is the best friend of that girl whom i love ?
I love a girl but i m unable to get her name i have decided to make friendship with that girl who is her best friend how do i make up with this girl for she also know that i love her friend !How to make friend with that who is the best friend of that girl whom i love ?
Learn proper English grammar first.How to make friend with that who is the best friend of that girl whom i love ?
that's easy although you'll feel uncomfortable at first but you have to overcome it to know the girl you love by her bestfriend. just talk to her, be nice to her and be yourself. if you can make her as your bestfriend too, that will be nice anyway, she already knows that you love her bestfriend. you have to make a move.
Learn proper English grammar first.How to make friend with that who is the best friend of that girl whom i love ?
that's easy although you'll feel uncomfortable at first but you have to overcome it to know the girl you love by her bestfriend. just talk to her, be nice to her and be yourself. if you can make her as your bestfriend too, that will be nice anyway, she already knows that you love her bestfriend. you have to make a move.
How to make it up to a friend?
Okay today it was one of my closest friends birthday party and I said I gonna go. He was talking about it all week at school so he was excited. Well today I was going to his house but another one of his close friends, lets just say was called Matt. He didn't go because he wanted to go cinema with a girl. then i knocked for Noah who was another close friend. He said he'll phone me when he's ready to go. i waited and he phone one hour and a half later and said he couldn't go. so then it got late and mum said don't go coz it was late. I feel kinda sad, how can i make it up to me.How to make it up to a friend?
You can't, you fail as a friend!How to make it up to a friend?
lol well no one can be mad at matt for getting action....noah is a dick for making you wait. but if your other friend is a good friend he will forgive you, throw him another party, or small get together
Apologize and simply explain the scenario. You could get him an ice cream cake or something, ust to make him feel better seeing as to how everyone blew him off..and just be there for him. Make him a card hand-made to show you care.
Well maybe your friend is not really that mad at. If he was, i dont see why he would even be a friend because if he was a true friend he would understand you and still be your friend.
Well, i think that if he's a good friend he would probably accept your apologies if you explain what happened, if not throw an other party and invite him, that should probably make up for it.
Do something awesome! There has to be a way so try different options and if one brings a smile, keep going in that direction! Good luck!
You can't, you fail as a friend!How to make it up to a friend?
lol well no one can be mad at matt for getting action....noah is a dick for making you wait. but if your other friend is a good friend he will forgive you, throw him another party, or small get together
Apologize and simply explain the scenario. You could get him an ice cream cake or something, ust to make him feel better seeing as to how everyone blew him off..and just be there for him. Make him a card hand-made to show you care.
Well maybe your friend is not really that mad at. If he was, i dont see why he would even be a friend because if he was a true friend he would understand you and still be your friend.
Well, i think that if he's a good friend he would probably accept your apologies if you explain what happened, if not throw an other party and invite him, that should probably make up for it.
Do something awesome! There has to be a way so try different options and if one brings a smile, keep going in that direction! Good luck!
How do I go about becoming a make up artist?
I would like to become a make up artist, I'm 17 years old and have one year left of high school which I plan on completing. I'm a guru at make up! I know EVERYTHING there is to know about anything to do with beauty. People tell me I look like a barbie but the truth is, I'm really not that pretty I'm just a master at highlighting features and contouring. Also, I like to make other people look and feel beautiful too. I do all my friends make up and apply hair extensions in their hair, help them colour their hair.
What do I have to do to become a make up artist and what are the qualifications? Thanks for the help!How do I go about becoming a make up artist?
they have schools for it... i think you can get a college degree for it... my modeling ';school'; had make up classes that u could take.. maybe there is one near u... i suggest looking in the phonebook under make up?... sry if this dont work..How do I go about becoming a make up artist?
Cosmetology is one of the career you can choose.
Some colleges have courses on Cosmetology and offer financial aid, just in case you need it. Also you can check with private cosmetology schools.
Do some research online can help you to find a god school.
you start off small atg salons that do makeup and hair and scouts come to those places about every couple months, if you show them your work and they might hire you for a big time place to get discovered
If you have a mall. Many of the larger stores hire people to do clinique or certain types of make up in order to sell the products...This would give you practice anyways. I would contact places like clinique or maxfactor and see what they have to offer.
There are schools available.
What do I have to do to become a make up artist and what are the qualifications? Thanks for the help!How do I go about becoming a make up artist?
they have schools for it... i think you can get a college degree for it... my modeling ';school'; had make up classes that u could take.. maybe there is one near u... i suggest looking in the phonebook under make up?... sry if this dont work..How do I go about becoming a make up artist?
Cosmetology is one of the career you can choose.
Some colleges have courses on Cosmetology and offer financial aid, just in case you need it. Also you can check with private cosmetology schools.
Do some research online can help you to find a god school.
you start off small atg salons that do makeup and hair and scouts come to those places about every couple months, if you show them your work and they might hire you for a big time place to get discovered
If you have a mall. Many of the larger stores hire people to do clinique or certain types of make up in order to sell the products...This would give you practice anyways. I would contact places like clinique or maxfactor and see what they have to offer.
There are schools available.
How can I make it up to my friend?
OK, I'm 13 and I went to a house party last night. I was being dropped off and picked up by my friend's mother, who didn't know there would be alcohol there.
I got a little drunk but everyone started to overreact, saying I would get my friend into trouble if her mother guessed that I was drunk, and even though I sobered up and her mother didn't guess, my friend still won't talk to me.
Even though getting drunk wasn't the smartest thing to do, I still think she should have been honest with her mother, but I can't do anything about that now.
How can I make it up to her?How can I make it up to my friend?
Tell her that you are sorry if you embarassed her but, it is her responsibilty to let her mother know what's going to be going on at the party. Then tell her although you are sorry it is your body and so you have the right to do whatever you want to it.
I got a little drunk but everyone started to overreact, saying I would get my friend into trouble if her mother guessed that I was drunk, and even though I sobered up and her mother didn't guess, my friend still won't talk to me.
Even though getting drunk wasn't the smartest thing to do, I still think she should have been honest with her mother, but I can't do anything about that now.
How can I make it up to her?How can I make it up to my friend?
Tell her that you are sorry if you embarassed her but, it is her responsibilty to let her mother know what's going to be going on at the party. Then tell her although you are sorry it is your body and so you have the right to do whatever you want to it.
How can I make it up to my friend?
So my friend used to work at this place where it had a arcade, go-karts, bumper boats, mini golf etc. He's worked there for over 2 years and his older bro before him. So since then (2 1/3 years ago) it was a group of about 5 friends including him. So when he worked we would go there and get free tokens and go on the rides. We did this a lot and never any problem. So friday we went to go chill with him and he let us on once, so we went. By the way, I always thought we were allowed to and that his managers were alright with it.
2 days later, a friend calls. HE GOT FIRED. I'm thinking, oh no. Cus he loved this job. The girl he was about to ask out worked there, and a lot of them were his friends now. Now I feel that I am responsible for this. I mean, there were others who went on more than me. And we used to go on SO MUCH before so i thought it was cool.
Now, he's mad/sad and I said if he wants to hang out today so we could just talk about it. What should I do to make it up to him? ALSO, there are other people dont' forget. Like 4-5 others who used to get on rides and I think they should make it up to him. And just taking him out for dinner sorta.....sucks. Can anyone think of a good idea?
ThanksHow can I make it up to my friend?
Woah, what a harsh manager! You can try telling him you're sorry he had to lose his job. But I think he knows it's not really your fault. He was the one responsible for keeping the rules, but he bent them since you guys were friends. Now he's taking responsibility of it. If he really wanted the job back, then perhaps you could go with him while he persuades the manager to take him back? Do whatever you think is necessary to help him out. How can I make it up to my friend?
Say sorry to him coz it's really your guys fault. Introduced him another job and treat him a round of drinks, try it.Siam Esteemed Product Co Ltd kick scooter
2 days later, a friend calls. HE GOT FIRED. I'm thinking, oh no. Cus he loved this job. The girl he was about to ask out worked there, and a lot of them were his friends now. Now I feel that I am responsible for this. I mean, there were others who went on more than me. And we used to go on SO MUCH before so i thought it was cool.
Now, he's mad/sad and I said if he wants to hang out today so we could just talk about it. What should I do to make it up to him? ALSO, there are other people dont' forget. Like 4-5 others who used to get on rides and I think they should make it up to him. And just taking him out for dinner sorta.....sucks. Can anyone think of a good idea?
ThanksHow can I make it up to my friend?
Woah, what a harsh manager! You can try telling him you're sorry he had to lose his job. But I think he knows it's not really your fault. He was the one responsible for keeping the rules, but he bent them since you guys were friends. Now he's taking responsibility of it. If he really wanted the job back, then perhaps you could go with him while he persuades the manager to take him back? Do whatever you think is necessary to help him out. How can I make it up to my friend?
Say sorry to him coz it's really your guys fault. Introduced him another job and treat him a round of drinks, try it.
How should I style my hair and do my make-up tomorrow?
Hi!
I'm meeting up with some old friends at the mall tomorrow. they haven't seen me since I've gone from chains and black nailpolish to popped collar polos and oversized sunglasses.
my hair is just to my shoulders with long-ish side bangs.
I'm going to be wearing a yellow polo and denim shorts w/ silver flip-flops. (so you can figure out if my make-up should cordinate.
Thanks so much!How should I style my hair and do my make-up tomorrow?
You should wear some mascara, black eyeliner, and some yellow eyeshadow. If you have silver eyeliner you can line that on your to eyelids after you put eyeliner on.How should I style my hair and do my make-up tomorrow?
R u a blonde?
make u r eyes look really pretty so u r face will look smaller that makes u look sexy and then curl u r hair . wear contacts if u have them!!!!!!! it pops up u r eyes.Siam Esteemed Product Co Ltd kick scooter
I'm meeting up with some old friends at the mall tomorrow. they haven't seen me since I've gone from chains and black nailpolish to popped collar polos and oversized sunglasses.
my hair is just to my shoulders with long-ish side bangs.
I'm going to be wearing a yellow polo and denim shorts w/ silver flip-flops. (so you can figure out if my make-up should cordinate.
Thanks so much!How should I style my hair and do my make-up tomorrow?
You should wear some mascara, black eyeliner, and some yellow eyeshadow. If you have silver eyeliner you can line that on your to eyelids after you put eyeliner on.How should I style my hair and do my make-up tomorrow?
R u a blonde?
make u r eyes look really pretty so u r face will look smaller that makes u look sexy and then curl u r hair . wear contacts if u have them!!!!!!! it pops up u r eyes.
What make-up colors work for her?
Im doing my best friends make-up for homecoming. She thinks Im amazing with my make-up, so she wants me to do hers. The problem is that her skin tone is completely different than mine. I have a tan/olive skin tine...while she has a very, very pale skin tone. I love her skin, its flawless, but i have no idea what colors would work for her. Her dress is a deep purple, and she has dark blue eyes, with blonde hair. I just need to know what and how to apply eyeshadow, lips, cheeks.....etc?...please help me make this a night to remember.What make-up colors work for her?
LIPS: to make it last longer, apply some chapstick first. try a coral looking pink with a shiny gloss on top.
CHEEKS: use a light pink blush. apply to the apples of her cheeks with a thick brush.
EYES: dark purple eyeliner (to match the dress) and black mascara to make her dark blue eyes pop. and for eyeshadow, use silver or lavender...or even ask her for her opinion on colors. to apply, start out with the inner corner of her eye and work your way out. but dont go higher that the crease with one color.
PLUS: dont let her see until the end...that way its a sweet suprise!What make-up colors work for her?
Do light pastel shades with her eyeshadow. Since her dress is purple, do a light shade of lavender, or a deeper shade of purple, just be sure to be light handed with it. A light pink of lip gloss or lipstick. A soft bronze or rose shade would look best on her cheeks.
LIPS: to make it last longer, apply some chapstick first. try a coral looking pink with a shiny gloss on top.
CHEEKS: use a light pink blush. apply to the apples of her cheeks with a thick brush.
EYES: dark purple eyeliner (to match the dress) and black mascara to make her dark blue eyes pop. and for eyeshadow, use silver or lavender...or even ask her for her opinion on colors. to apply, start out with the inner corner of her eye and work your way out. but dont go higher that the crease with one color.
PLUS: dont let her see until the end...that way its a sweet suprise!What make-up colors work for her?
Do light pastel shades with her eyeshadow. Since her dress is purple, do a light shade of lavender, or a deeper shade of purple, just be sure to be light handed with it. A light pink of lip gloss or lipstick. A soft bronze or rose shade would look best on her cheeks.
Make-up and Mother bother.?
I'm fifteen years old and i have a close relationship with my Mum, we talk about pretty much everything and i know i can rely on her, but lately (the past year or so) i've been getting into make-up. My friends all wear it and they look gorgeous. I wear mascara and lipgloss, i want to wear mineral foundation but i know my mum will freak when i tell her. It's almost like she doesnt want me to grow up, i'm fifteen though for god sake and i really want to wear it, not because of my friends, but because i know i'll feel better about myself if I do.
How do I tell her? I am fifteen, she needs to let me grow-up, i suppose me being the youngest child doesnt help?Make-up and Mother bother.?
You are 15 and your skin is delicate and prone to pimples because of hormonal changes in his age. I suggest dont use too much cosmetics. Using foundation everyday24X7 may harm your skin clogging the pores and hence resulting in pimples.
Use sunscreen instead if you desperately want to use foundation then use it very little(mix asmall amount in moisturiser or sunscreen and use). I am sure your mom will not be mad at you when she ll see that you dont use it everyday.I never knew you grow up by using make up. Its not that important. Dont think about it so much.
Take care of your skin
How do I tell her? I am fifteen, she needs to let me grow-up, i suppose me being the youngest child doesnt help?Make-up and Mother bother.?
You are 15 and your skin is delicate and prone to pimples because of hormonal changes in his age. I suggest dont use too much cosmetics. Using foundation everyday24X7 may harm your skin clogging the pores and hence resulting in pimples.
Use sunscreen instead if you desperately want to use foundation then use it very little(mix asmall amount in moisturiser or sunscreen and use). I am sure your mom will not be mad at you when she ll see that you dont use it everyday.I never knew you grow up by using make up. Its not that important. Dont think about it so much.
Take care of your skin
How to make up with my ex-best friend after 3 months have gone by?
Hi, everyone.
I was best friends with this girl for about 3 or 4 years.. And about 3 months ago, we got into a major fight over something really stupid. We haven't talked since, and we completely blocked each other out of our lives. And now, I've decided that I at least want to be cordial towards her. I was going to send her a friend request on Facebook, explaining how I think our fight was pointless, and how I want to be at least friendly toward her.. But I'm scared to.
How should I apologize? How should I get her to be my friend again? I need help, please. :)How to make up with my ex-best friend after 3 months have gone by?
I know exactly how you feel. It has been two years since I talked to my best friend. But I got through it. If she is really ignoring you and being a brat then maybe you guys shouldn't be friends anymore. But if she really will hear you out then she will probably forgive you. Just take it step by step. Don't try to rush the whole explanation of the fight.How to make up with my ex-best friend after 3 months have gone by?
yeah i think you should do that send her a request and just tell her how you feel and say sorry at the end !
say sorry give her a gift hang out take her out to eat and see if it works say that you love being her friend
you're best bet is to just straight forward tell her how you feel. who knows, maybe she feels the same way.
just be like im sorry for --- so who knows. you both cant be mad at each other for ever. 3-4 years is a while :)
YOUUU SHOULD TALK TO HER ABOUT WHAT HAPPEND.. and be the first one to start your friendship again.. you dont need to do ny thing to get her friendship back just say sprry and exlpain her how you feel about the fight!! if she is your real friend she will understand!!!!
WELL, something very similar happened to me. It was very unpleasant to not talk to her or have her in my life. But slowly we started talking again. Now it's so much better.
I wouldnt do it on Facebook messages. If you can email her or go face to face is better.
I was best friends with this girl for about 3 or 4 years.. And about 3 months ago, we got into a major fight over something really stupid. We haven't talked since, and we completely blocked each other out of our lives. And now, I've decided that I at least want to be cordial towards her. I was going to send her a friend request on Facebook, explaining how I think our fight was pointless, and how I want to be at least friendly toward her.. But I'm scared to.
How should I apologize? How should I get her to be my friend again? I need help, please. :)How to make up with my ex-best friend after 3 months have gone by?
I know exactly how you feel. It has been two years since I talked to my best friend. But I got through it. If she is really ignoring you and being a brat then maybe you guys shouldn't be friends anymore. But if she really will hear you out then she will probably forgive you. Just take it step by step. Don't try to rush the whole explanation of the fight.How to make up with my ex-best friend after 3 months have gone by?
yeah i think you should do that send her a request and just tell her how you feel and say sorry at the end !
say sorry give her a gift hang out take her out to eat and see if it works say that you love being her friend
you're best bet is to just straight forward tell her how you feel. who knows, maybe she feels the same way.
just be like im sorry for --- so who knows. you both cant be mad at each other for ever. 3-4 years is a while :)
YOUUU SHOULD TALK TO HER ABOUT WHAT HAPPEND.. and be the first one to start your friendship again.. you dont need to do ny thing to get her friendship back just say sprry and exlpain her how you feel about the fight!! if she is your real friend she will understand!!!!
WELL, something very similar happened to me. It was very unpleasant to not talk to her or have her in my life. But slowly we started talking again. Now it's so much better.
I wouldnt do it on Facebook messages. If you can email her or go face to face is better.
How do you make up an excuse for not showing up to plans with a friend?
if you are a child say you are grounded.
If you are an adult, say car trouble or got called into work.How do you make up an excuse for not showing up to plans with a friend?
say your parents grounded you
cause u were on the computer way to much.
LolHow do you make up an excuse for not showing up to plans with a friend?
Tell your friend that you have other plans, or tell her you got grounded from texting too much.
Say ur grandmother was ill and u had to see her.....if they're ur mates they'll understand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't make up excuses just for that. Always remember, everybody hates liars and likes those who are honest, reliable, etc. So just tell them the truth even sometimes it seems hard to tell the truth.
If you are an adult, say car trouble or got called into work.How do you make up an excuse for not showing up to plans with a friend?
say your parents grounded you
cause u were on the computer way to much.
LolHow do you make up an excuse for not showing up to plans with a friend?
Tell your friend that you have other plans, or tell her you got grounded from texting too much.
Say ur grandmother was ill and u had to see her.....if they're ur mates they'll understand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't make up excuses just for that. Always remember, everybody hates liars and likes those who are honest, reliable, etc. So just tell them the truth even sometimes it seems hard to tell the truth.
How can I make it up to my friend? (Read below)?
Ok so one of my close friends invited me to go to a waterpark with her and her family for a few days. I would have to miss 2 days of school but I thought it'd be worth it. And she asked if I could go like a month ago. Well I kinda talked to my mom about it before and she said maybe.
But it's getting closer and my friend really wanted to make sure I can go so I asked my parents again and they said NO because they don't want me missing school.
And I just had to call my friend and tell her that I can't go after she'd been planning on me going with her and she sounded really sad on the phone and said she had to go. And I feel TERRIBLE! I really wanted to go with her and now I'm really sad that she's sad. :'( I really feel like I disappointed her. How can I make this up to her?How can I make it up to my friend? (Read below)?
It is not your fault that you can't go to the water park with your friend. I know its feels bad to give your friend the bad news that you couldn't go. You can make this up to her by maybe inviting her to go out with you and your family or just have girls night and hang out.How can I make it up to my friend? (Read below)?
look its not ur fault parents suck sometimes. ur friend im sure will understand. the only thing u can do is explain ur parents wouldnt let u and hanging out with her over time will alow her to 4get and 4give. soz if this dont really help
your parents said no, i wouldnt argue with them. You can try to argue with them, but missing school is never a good thing with parents. Just say your sorry and you cant go, trust me after she comes back it wont even matter to her.Siam Esteemed Product Co Ltd kick scooter
But it's getting closer and my friend really wanted to make sure I can go so I asked my parents again and they said NO because they don't want me missing school.
And I just had to call my friend and tell her that I can't go after she'd been planning on me going with her and she sounded really sad on the phone and said she had to go. And I feel TERRIBLE! I really wanted to go with her and now I'm really sad that she's sad. :'( I really feel like I disappointed her. How can I make this up to her?How can I make it up to my friend? (Read below)?
It is not your fault that you can't go to the water park with your friend. I know its feels bad to give your friend the bad news that you couldn't go. You can make this up to her by maybe inviting her to go out with you and your family or just have girls night and hang out.How can I make it up to my friend? (Read below)?
look its not ur fault parents suck sometimes. ur friend im sure will understand. the only thing u can do is explain ur parents wouldnt let u and hanging out with her over time will alow her to 4get and 4give. soz if this dont really help
your parents said no, i wouldnt argue with them. You can try to argue with them, but missing school is never a good thing with parents. Just say your sorry and you cant go, trust me after she comes back it wont even matter to her.
Make-up Artist? Easy Question! WILL Pick Best Answer!=]?
How old do you have to be to get a make-up artist license? Were do you get one?
I need to know because (I'm 14), but I would like to get my make-up artist license as soon as I can. I'm GREAT with make-up I get complements all the time asking were I got it done, etc, I do my friends make-up all the time, my sister who is getting married next year wants me to be the make-up artist for her and all her bridesmaids (I'm her Maid of Honor)! I even got offered a job as a make-up artist at a local place (they didn't know I was 14)....
So how old do you have to be? Etc. Please feel free to add anything!
Will pick Best Answer.=]Make-up Artist? Easy Question! WILL Pick Best Answer!=]?
you have to have a high school diploma, or a GED to get one/become a makeup artist. after i graduate high school i'm going to MUD makeup school. but waiting for that to happen, you should definitly continue doing your friends/sister/who evers makeup. congrats on being wanted to do your sisters makeup for her wedding, that is awsome.
go to mudmakeup.com for more reassurance. but you still have to have your high school diploma or a GED. goodluck though =)Make-up Artist? Easy Question! WILL Pick Best Answer!=]?
Well, I'm pretty sure you have to be at least 17 or 18.
BUT it depends on the state you live in.
You can find more information here:
http://www.beautyschooladvisor.com/make-鈥?/a>
i dont think you have to be any specific age, although for certain places you would prob need to be at least 16 just to work there, but who knows. i dont know where you live but find out the laws in your area. for some places you will need to have an esthetician license to touch faces of clients in a salon, but in a mall or something like that, im pretty sure you dont need anything. there are certain makeup artistry schools. let me know where you live and ill see if i can help you find any. also, do you have a portfolio of things youve done? if not get started on that right away. do before and afters included in each one. and the more broad your talent is the better. for example, you sound pretty good at regular special occasion makeup so why not try special effects and coverup things (you know for skin disorders, burn victims etc.) and do research on what other types there are-ims ure there more than i can think of off the top of my head. start practicing and taking pics on whoever will let you. the more the better. good luck! ive taken several classes for special effects at the community college in my area. i think its great you are so young too, start young and work your foot into the door!
I need to know because (I'm 14), but I would like to get my make-up artist license as soon as I can. I'm GREAT with make-up I get complements all the time asking were I got it done, etc, I do my friends make-up all the time, my sister who is getting married next year wants me to be the make-up artist for her and all her bridesmaids (I'm her Maid of Honor)! I even got offered a job as a make-up artist at a local place (they didn't know I was 14)....
So how old do you have to be? Etc. Please feel free to add anything!
Will pick Best Answer.=]Make-up Artist? Easy Question! WILL Pick Best Answer!=]?
you have to have a high school diploma, or a GED to get one/become a makeup artist. after i graduate high school i'm going to MUD makeup school. but waiting for that to happen, you should definitly continue doing your friends/sister/who evers makeup. congrats on being wanted to do your sisters makeup for her wedding, that is awsome.
go to mudmakeup.com for more reassurance. but you still have to have your high school diploma or a GED. goodluck though =)Make-up Artist? Easy Question! WILL Pick Best Answer!=]?
Well, I'm pretty sure you have to be at least 17 or 18.
BUT it depends on the state you live in.
You can find more information here:
http://www.beautyschooladvisor.com/make-鈥?/a>
i dont think you have to be any specific age, although for certain places you would prob need to be at least 16 just to work there, but who knows. i dont know where you live but find out the laws in your area. for some places you will need to have an esthetician license to touch faces of clients in a salon, but in a mall or something like that, im pretty sure you dont need anything. there are certain makeup artistry schools. let me know where you live and ill see if i can help you find any. also, do you have a portfolio of things youve done? if not get started on that right away. do before and afters included in each one. and the more broad your talent is the better. for example, you sound pretty good at regular special occasion makeup so why not try special effects and coverup things (you know for skin disorders, burn victims etc.) and do research on what other types there are-ims ure there more than i can think of off the top of my head. start practicing and taking pics on whoever will let you. the more the better. good luck! ive taken several classes for special effects at the community college in my area. i think its great you are so young too, start young and work your foot into the door!
How do I tell my mom I want to wear make up?
I've worn makeup before for dance and stuff, but not to school. The stuff I have for dance is very dark so it shows up on stage. Anyways, my friends are starting to wear makeup, and I don't know how to tell/ convince my mom I want to wear makeup. It's not like I want to do it just because my friends do though. My eyes look a lot better with a little mascara and eye shadow. My friends at dance tell me I should wear make up to school, but I have no idea how to let my mom know this. Any advice how I can tell and convince my mom to let me wear make up?How do I tell my mom I want to wear make up?
well you should hint it out start with a lil makeup here and there... when i started wearing makeup i kept it simple and gradually started wearing more...start with mascara and work your way upHow do I tell my mom I want to wear make up?
Just walk up to her and say I think I'm old enough to wear a little make up now, may I please just wear a little eye shadow and mascara and that's all, no more?
Say it to her when you walk by the make up aisle in the grocery/drug store.
The first time i ever woren makeup to school was in 8th grade [two years ago]. I just started buying makeup when my friends were out shopping with me and I've been kinda sneaking it around, my mom never knew until she caught me putting on mascara and eyeshadow in the bathroom
She said, ';why didnt i just ask her if i could wear makeup instead of sneaking around and acting like a criminal lol?'; Then things went good, she just let me wore it. My point is, just wear it one day in front of your mom, but do your makeup lightly so she can approve. Make sure ur mom notices too and then she'll probably ask ';are u wearing makeup?'; and say ';yes'; and start from there, i'm sure she wont be mad, she'll understand that every teenage girl goes thro this
well the best thing to do is to come up front and tell her or if ur to shy to do that u can just casually put makeup on her shoppong list or slip a note in her purse.
I already answered this! Check! Why post this 2 times? Ur messed!
Thanks for the 2 points!
just tell her...i mean...it's not going to happen any other way...i mean...one way or another, u're probably going to end up wearing makeup, whether she likes it or not
explain to ur mom that ur not a child and that u r growing up fast. tell her that in todays society young girls wear makeup. and tell her that u wont over power ur natural beauty (always works)
well you should hint it out start with a lil makeup here and there... when i started wearing makeup i kept it simple and gradually started wearing more...start with mascara and work your way upHow do I tell my mom I want to wear make up?
Just walk up to her and say I think I'm old enough to wear a little make up now, may I please just wear a little eye shadow and mascara and that's all, no more?
Say it to her when you walk by the make up aisle in the grocery/drug store.
The first time i ever woren makeup to school was in 8th grade [two years ago]. I just started buying makeup when my friends were out shopping with me and I've been kinda sneaking it around, my mom never knew until she caught me putting on mascara and eyeshadow in the bathroom
She said, ';why didnt i just ask her if i could wear makeup instead of sneaking around and acting like a criminal lol?'; Then things went good, she just let me wore it. My point is, just wear it one day in front of your mom, but do your makeup lightly so she can approve. Make sure ur mom notices too and then she'll probably ask ';are u wearing makeup?'; and say ';yes'; and start from there, i'm sure she wont be mad, she'll understand that every teenage girl goes thro this
well the best thing to do is to come up front and tell her or if ur to shy to do that u can just casually put makeup on her shoppong list or slip a note in her purse.
I already answered this! Check! Why post this 2 times? Ur messed!
Thanks for the 2 points!
just tell her...i mean...it's not going to happen any other way...i mean...one way or another, u're probably going to end up wearing makeup, whether she likes it or not
explain to ur mom that ur not a child and that u r growing up fast. tell her that in todays society young girls wear makeup. and tell her that u wont over power ur natural beauty (always works)
My best friend can't make up her mind about one of our friends. Help?
my best friend and I became friends with this girl and after a couple of months she decided that she didnt like this girl and that she didnt want to hang out with her anymore, she stuck with this until last weekend when we hung out with her for a couple days. Now she's unblocked her from msn, been constantly texting her, making plans with her, and now i feel like im being left out because they've made plans practicly infront of my face and talked about them and didnt bother to include me.
so im sitting in the position that my best friend is starting to ignore me and pay more attention to someone she hated a week ago.
what do i do? how do i confront my best friend without causing drama?
ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhMy best friend can't make up her mind about one of our friends. Help?
She sounds pretty fickle and dramatic. Just let her hang out with this girl and I'm sure once things grow old between them, she'll come back to you. If you confront her or talk to her about it, she'll just accuse you of being jealous. In the mean time hang out with other friends and act like it doesn't bother you.My best friend can't make up her mind about one of our friends. Help?
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!!!!!!!!
so im sitting in the position that my best friend is starting to ignore me and pay more attention to someone she hated a week ago.
what do i do? how do i confront my best friend without causing drama?
ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhMy best friend can't make up her mind about one of our friends. Help?
She sounds pretty fickle and dramatic. Just let her hang out with this girl and I'm sure once things grow old between them, she'll come back to you. If you confront her or talk to her about it, she'll just accuse you of being jealous. In the mean time hang out with other friends and act like it doesn't bother you.My best friend can't make up her mind about one of our friends. Help?
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!!!!!!!!
Friend and I fought, not sure how to make up?
My friend and I used to text each other everyday. But one day, her sister texted me just to say hi. I politely responded and talked to her for a little while. But my friend has a little bit of a sister inferiority complex or something, cause she got mad and said she was done talking to me. I didn't think I had done anything wrong, and since I always apologize in our fights even if I'm right, I decided she could make up with me if she wanted to.
But then a mutual friend tried to clear it up, and I ignored her. I tried to apologize to her because that was my fault, but she ignored me. I tried 3 times and then my friend texted me saying I was trying to replace her with our mutual friend, and to stop texting our mutual friend. I haven't talked to either since.
I want to make up with them, even if i have to apologize for something that wasn't my fault. But I just don't know how to go about it. Any suggestions for making up with her?Friend and I fought, not sure how to make up?
Oh your friend is one of those people who want you friendship for themselves and themselves only. They aren't real friends since they never take the initiative of apologizing even when it was their fault. Sorry, but you shouldn't waste your time with people like this. They will most likely hurt you in the future and expect and apology from you too.
Talk to her and tell her how you feel. You need more space.
But then a mutual friend tried to clear it up, and I ignored her. I tried to apologize to her because that was my fault, but she ignored me. I tried 3 times and then my friend texted me saying I was trying to replace her with our mutual friend, and to stop texting our mutual friend. I haven't talked to either since.
I want to make up with them, even if i have to apologize for something that wasn't my fault. But I just don't know how to go about it. Any suggestions for making up with her?Friend and I fought, not sure how to make up?
Oh your friend is one of those people who want you friendship for themselves and themselves only. They aren't real friends since they never take the initiative of apologizing even when it was their fault. Sorry, but you shouldn't waste your time with people like this. They will most likely hurt you in the future and expect and apology from you too.
Talk to her and tell her how you feel. You need more space.
How to make up to a chat mate a friend 10yrs ago who doesn't remember you?
i have a friend i met her 10 yrs ago in h.s. as i search her and chat with her she does not remember me anymore but it goes well at the first week. later on i get so exited to talk to her i asked
';why this time your too slow to reply. you sure have so many friends'; then she reply gudnight and the next day she turns her self permanently invisible on me. i can see it using a girls account on her but off course im not emailing her a msg using my others account. i want to make up with her.... i did not search her after 10 years just to make her mad at me... i like to know so much about her like what happen to these pass 10 years shes 22yrs old now and im 23. im such a stupid person i wish i never ask such question... please help me... i dont care if she makes that question unforgivable for her to make her account permanently invisible. im willing to gave up some pride here. i don't want her to get mad at me after 10 yrs. specially not now that we both finished out studies. pls help its urgentHow to make up to a chat mate a friend 10yrs ago who doesn't remember you?
Well, first E-mail her with another account and apologies for what you wrote. Tell her that you want to become good friends. That you want to get to know her if is all right with her. Ask her if she wants to be friends, that you would understand if she doesn't want to become friends. Just be careful what you write don't mess up again. You wrote that you were friends before, don't you have pictures or a year book of you two together, you could send them to her to see if she remember. Good Luck and think before you type.Siam Esteemed Product Co Ltd kick scooter
';why this time your too slow to reply. you sure have so many friends'; then she reply gudnight and the next day she turns her self permanently invisible on me. i can see it using a girls account on her but off course im not emailing her a msg using my others account. i want to make up with her.... i did not search her after 10 years just to make her mad at me... i like to know so much about her like what happen to these pass 10 years shes 22yrs old now and im 23. im such a stupid person i wish i never ask such question... please help me... i dont care if she makes that question unforgivable for her to make her account permanently invisible. im willing to gave up some pride here. i don't want her to get mad at me after 10 yrs. specially not now that we both finished out studies. pls help its urgentHow to make up to a chat mate a friend 10yrs ago who doesn't remember you?
Well, first E-mail her with another account and apologies for what you wrote. Tell her that you want to become good friends. That you want to get to know her if is all right with her. Ask her if she wants to be friends, that you would understand if she doesn't want to become friends. Just be careful what you write don't mess up again. You wrote that you were friends before, don't you have pictures or a year book of you two together, you could send them to her to see if she remember. Good Luck and think before you type.
How can I make up for being horrible to a good friend?
At school a few people were making fun of my best friend because she went to the cinema with this guy, made out with him and never spoke to him again. I went a bit too far, started saying things I shouldn't have said and now she has said that she doesn't want to be my friend anymore. Normally when we have a fight, leave it a couple of days and we'll be back to how we were. But I'm pretty worried this time. She won't return any of my calls or texts and it's pretty obvious that she's really very pissed off.
What can I do to make it up to her?
Thanks.How can I make up for being horrible to a good friend?
you could apologize. i've never been in that situation but that's what i would do...How can I make up for being horrible to a good friend?
That was pretty low of you. She was being made fun of and instead of defending her you joined in. She feels very betrayed and humiliated, don't be surprised if she never forgives you.
All you can do is try to approach her in person and express how sorry you are. Promise to never treat her that way again. But, she would have to be a very kind person to give you a second chance. Most people wouldn't.
What can I do to make it up to her?
Thanks.How can I make up for being horrible to a good friend?
you could apologize. i've never been in that situation but that's what i would do...How can I make up for being horrible to a good friend?
That was pretty low of you. She was being made fun of and instead of defending her you joined in. She feels very betrayed and humiliated, don't be surprised if she never forgives you.
All you can do is try to approach her in person and express how sorry you are. Promise to never treat her that way again. But, she would have to be a very kind person to give you a second chance. Most people wouldn't.
Tell me what to do when u have lost a dear friend. I tried to make up her mood but all in vain also 10the sly.
10th std. (cbse) syllabus. specially regarding science. i am comedian, but how to make up the mood of my best frnd when is angry with me? told her sorry a hundred times.Tell me what to do when u have lost a dear friend. I tried to make up her mood but all in vain also 10the sly.
you can gift her or make a card saying sorry. it depends on what u did to her which made her angry.
best of luck.Tell me what to do when u have lost a dear friend. I tried to make up her mood but all in vain also 10the sly.
Try To Know Form Ur Friend What Is The Matter ? Why She Is Angry With U ?
And Try Convince Her And Gift Her Something Again Tell Her Sorry...Good Luck
you can gift her or make a card saying sorry. it depends on what u did to her which made her angry.
best of luck.Tell me what to do when u have lost a dear friend. I tried to make up her mood but all in vain also 10the sly.
Try To Know Form Ur Friend What Is The Matter ? Why She Is Angry With U ?
And Try Convince Her And Gift Her Something Again Tell Her Sorry...Good Luck
How can i make up with my friends?
everyone here on yahoo answers keep telling me that i should make up with the friends i got in a fight with even thought they did mean things to me the problem is i never made up with a friend what should i do or say? should i talk 2 them on msn or in person?How can i make up with my friends?
Msn Is Safer O_O , I Mean' They Cant Throw Things At You On Msn, And You Can Kinda Lie A Bit Without Showing It . =DHow can i make up with my friends?
in person, i hate to be rude but they'll probably think that your scared if your only talking to them on msn.
You can try talk to them on msn. They may or may not answer you, though.
But you can always make the first step to talk things out.
Tell them you were not feeling good after you had had a fight with them.And let them know how that hurt you, too. Make the first step to say sorry. You will be amazed at this magical word!
I always believe that having even a friend with you is always better than having an enemy with you~
So, good luck, friend!
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Heyya me and my friends get into fight loads... I think that if they did mean things to you, you should stilll make up with them, but remember that they are capable of being mean when they want to! Talk to them on msn so it allows both of you time to think about what you're gonna say. After that, you should talk in person cos if you just talk on msn and not in person, it's kinda fake. Another thing is, if they were the ones mean to you, tell them what they did that upset you and hopefully they'll stop. If they don't, well then dont bother with them anymore! Hope it all sorts itself out ;)
Well me %26amp;%26amp; my friends get into it all the time. %26amp;%26amp; im pretty good with making up with them, sooo.....ummm i could help you, but it depends on the problem wheather you should do it on msn, phone, in person, ETC. but just hit me up %26amp;%26amp; i can help you, trust me im good with this stuff...
I have been told that I can be cold, but I never forgive friends who hurt me. Life is short, friends come and go. And only your family is there for you over the years.
A friend that would hurt you isn't a friend.
Dump em.
u can make me frd as well:P
best regards
haroon aejaz http://123infor.blogspot.com/
well using msn is a little immature. Try to talk to them in person, If you dont want to make up with your friend you dont have to... this is your life. If they did mean thigns before they may do them again. We on yahoo answers dont really know the exact story, do what you think.
Msn Is Safer O_O , I Mean' They Cant Throw Things At You On Msn, And You Can Kinda Lie A Bit Without Showing It . =DHow can i make up with my friends?
in person, i hate to be rude but they'll probably think that your scared if your only talking to them on msn.
You can try talk to them on msn. They may or may not answer you, though.
But you can always make the first step to talk things out.
Tell them you were not feeling good after you had had a fight with them.And let them know how that hurt you, too. Make the first step to say sorry. You will be amazed at this magical word!
I always believe that having even a friend with you is always better than having an enemy with you~
So, good luck, friend!
dhdj uttb ssshfhff
Heyya me and my friends get into fight loads... I think that if they did mean things to you, you should stilll make up with them, but remember that they are capable of being mean when they want to! Talk to them on msn so it allows both of you time to think about what you're gonna say. After that, you should talk in person cos if you just talk on msn and not in person, it's kinda fake. Another thing is, if they were the ones mean to you, tell them what they did that upset you and hopefully they'll stop. If they don't, well then dont bother with them anymore! Hope it all sorts itself out ;)
Well me %26amp;%26amp; my friends get into it all the time. %26amp;%26amp; im pretty good with making up with them, sooo.....ummm i could help you, but it depends on the problem wheather you should do it on msn, phone, in person, ETC. but just hit me up %26amp;%26amp; i can help you, trust me im good with this stuff...
I have been told that I can be cold, but I never forgive friends who hurt me. Life is short, friends come and go. And only your family is there for you over the years.
A friend that would hurt you isn't a friend.
Dump em.
u can make me frd as well:P
best regards
haroon aejaz http://123infor.blogspot.com/
well using msn is a little immature. Try to talk to them in person, If you dont want to make up with your friend you dont have to... this is your life. If they did mean thigns before they may do them again. We on yahoo answers dont really know the exact story, do what you think.
I had a friend hurt me, and is now trying to make up with me, what do I do?
He is my best guy friend. We used to go out over a year ago, and broke up over a year ago for reasons we don't remember. He is the person I turn to and tell everything. We used to talk every night%26amp;then one day...we had sex. He stopped calling me after that. I was so freaked about maybe being pregnant, and had noone to talk to about it. I have other friends, but I couldn't tell them such a thing happend...so I worried everyday alone. I would wait up as long as I could to see if he would call, but he never did.I never tried calling him, cause I know he talked to someone else at night(another friend), and wo Right after we had sex, I was scared a bit%26amp;he said things like ';Why are you giving me that look, you're the one that called me'; and saying things that sounded like he wouldn't be there for me if I was pregnant%26amp;like I was to take all the responsibility. It takes two to tango...For a month, he didn't call me. During that time, I felt horrible. I felt alone...and abandoned. I gave up on waiting for him to call. Then 2 weeks later, we hung out with friends, and I saw happend to see him fingering my friend under a towel as I was sitting next to them in the car. He finally called me a month after this,trying to make up with me, since he saw I was pushing myself away from him after all of this mess. He apologized the first night we talked, and the other nights he talked as though none of this happend. He would bring up of when we were dating and all the good times with ';Remember when';. Earlier, he had stopped calling me at night because he was talking to someone else. I feel like an option. I don't feel important in his life. I feel like he's talking to me now because he feels like he has to...but even if this talk at night could help our friendship rebuild, I can't help but think every night about what I felt then. I think he lost my trust. Everything was going back to normal, but I broke down last night, and dragged out the mess again. I don't know how things are going to be, I haven't talked to him yet today. Sometimes I think I'm over reacting, but, I can't help it. I'm not sure what I should do, or if pushing him away is right...Help?I had a friend hurt me, and is now trying to make up with me, what do I do?
Sounds like he used you.
Having fun then going silent? Bad sign.
I would say, just because of this, that this person is NOT in fact a friend.
I had a friend hurt me, and is now trying to make up with me, what do I do?
wait for some time and everything will b fine dear................btw whts ur age?
Yes, pushing him away is right. I lost my virginity to this guy who didn't really care much. We worked together for about a year and a half after that and it was really hard. He would act like he wanted to be friends and then talk about me behind my back and about other girls in front of my face. Recently we were fwb's and now we haven't talked in over a month for no apparent reason. Just let the hurt be over with. Find new friends, who you know have no other motives than to be friends.
He's being an ahole, forget about him.
Sounds like he used you.
Having fun then going silent? Bad sign.
I would say, just because of this, that this person is NOT in fact a friend.
I had a friend hurt me, and is now trying to make up with me, what do I do?
wait for some time and everything will b fine dear................btw whts ur age?
Yes, pushing him away is right. I lost my virginity to this guy who didn't really care much. We worked together for about a year and a half after that and it was really hard. He would act like he wanted to be friends and then talk about me behind my back and about other girls in front of my face. Recently we were fwb's and now we haven't talked in over a month for no apparent reason. Just let the hurt be over with. Find new friends, who you know have no other motives than to be friends.
He's being an ahole, forget about him.
I am STILL making up imaginary friends and I am still trying figure out why. HELP?
I am having with deep conversations and now I am thinking outloud. I just want to know why am I having these deep conversations with pretend friends.
I change my voice, and I create someone that has a better life than me.
Pretty much sums it up in reality. I don't have a successful life. I don't even have a good life. I just want to know how to stop creating these friends.
The problem is that I been doing everyday for the last 13-15 years. Like it is a crazy habit.I am STILL making up imaginary friends and I am still trying figure out why. HELP?
You have a connection with God. Maybe? Im not sure. Perhaps you are insecure about other people in the world. Try to forgive about other people and just life your life like you want to.
I would give anything if I had a connection with God.I am STILL making up imaginary friends and I am still trying figure out why. HELP?
They aren't imaginary.. they are SPIRITS and you have allowed them into your mind... People who hear voices are either PSYCHOTIC or they are HAUNTED... and you may be BOTH.
man u need the help of psychiatrist.consult one asap.
I BELIEVE YOU NEED TO SEE A THERAPIST ASAP
Dude, I think most of the people who have imaginary friends do not know that they are imaginary.
In your case, I think it is just that you can't help doing it.
you know that they are not real but you insist on doing it.
should i say you are addicted to it?
Talk to real friends, real people. Tell the your problems, or just chat aimlessly.
When you have the urge to talk to your 'friend', or accidentally did start a conversation, just say out I don't want to talk.
Try doing stuff that'll make your life better, get busy, and enjoy it.
Write journals, diaries, keep a tape recorder.
You have to control yourself, keep yourself away from LaLaLand for at least one week.
If you're a student, get into your studies, do a lot of mental excercise, like memorising.
Excercise, and tire yourself out, use these friends only for motivating yourself. They're not necessarily bad.
Cheers!!!!!
The fear and worry of being alone will cause us to do all sorts of things.
Creating new friends in the imagination can be avoided by going out and making actual friends. Of course, if one is not satisfied with people in general creating people who meet our needs in our minds would like suffice.
They want collateral. Something will happen and it will be your fault. Just try and speak to them. In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with having an imaginary friend. Be careful.
Andre have you ever been checked for OCD-obsessive compulsive disorder?Since you try but can't make yourself stop doing these things it sounds a lot like OCD.It's like you are driven to do it.The doctor told me how you can tell if it is OCD is if you try to stop doing whatever it is that you do over and over and it stops then it is not OCD.If you try to stop but cannot make yourself stop then it is OCD.While I think that you may have OCD to some degree I think there are also other issues with you.You just need to find out what they are.Good luck.I care.
you are a very lonely man that i see make friends real ones
I change my voice, and I create someone that has a better life than me.
Pretty much sums it up in reality. I don't have a successful life. I don't even have a good life. I just want to know how to stop creating these friends.
The problem is that I been doing everyday for the last 13-15 years. Like it is a crazy habit.I am STILL making up imaginary friends and I am still trying figure out why. HELP?
You have a connection with God. Maybe? Im not sure. Perhaps you are insecure about other people in the world. Try to forgive about other people and just life your life like you want to.
I would give anything if I had a connection with God.I am STILL making up imaginary friends and I am still trying figure out why. HELP?
They aren't imaginary.. they are SPIRITS and you have allowed them into your mind... People who hear voices are either PSYCHOTIC or they are HAUNTED... and you may be BOTH.
man u need the help of psychiatrist.consult one asap.
I BELIEVE YOU NEED TO SEE A THERAPIST ASAP
Dude, I think most of the people who have imaginary friends do not know that they are imaginary.
In your case, I think it is just that you can't help doing it.
you know that they are not real but you insist on doing it.
should i say you are addicted to it?
Talk to real friends, real people. Tell the your problems, or just chat aimlessly.
When you have the urge to talk to your 'friend', or accidentally did start a conversation, just say out I don't want to talk.
Try doing stuff that'll make your life better, get busy, and enjoy it.
Write journals, diaries, keep a tape recorder.
You have to control yourself, keep yourself away from LaLaLand for at least one week.
If you're a student, get into your studies, do a lot of mental excercise, like memorising.
Excercise, and tire yourself out, use these friends only for motivating yourself. They're not necessarily bad.
Cheers!!!!!
The fear and worry of being alone will cause us to do all sorts of things.
Creating new friends in the imagination can be avoided by going out and making actual friends. Of course, if one is not satisfied with people in general creating people who meet our needs in our minds would like suffice.
They want collateral. Something will happen and it will be your fault. Just try and speak to them. In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with having an imaginary friend. Be careful.
Andre have you ever been checked for OCD-obsessive compulsive disorder?Since you try but can't make yourself stop doing these things it sounds a lot like OCD.It's like you are driven to do it.The doctor told me how you can tell if it is OCD is if you try to stop doing whatever it is that you do over and over and it stops then it is not OCD.If you try to stop but cannot make yourself stop then it is OCD.While I think that you may have OCD to some degree I think there are also other issues with you.You just need to find out what they are.Good luck.I care.
you are a very lonely man that i see make friends real ones
(long sorry)My best friend makes up big lies, should I still just go along with her?
We have been really good friends for about 5 years. When I first met her she said she was once a model for body wash ads(she would of only been thirteen!) She said she had been to every single country in the world. She said she did all these extreme sports(never seen photos of her doing them)...Yes I pretty much believed her, lots of people said she was lying, as a friend, I tried to stick up for her, now I feel stupid. She told everyone at school she used to be anorexic. She said she had a tumor. She said she had had an abortion and then she said she gave birth to a live baby and it was adopted out ( she would of been only 12 or thirteen then, geez) Then she says this little girl I met was her child. I have only just found out after she told everyone but me,
Her mom is really nice and is outgoing but none of this was ever mentioned by her mom.
My friend since I've known her seems to get pregnant every two months. And have all these abortions. I ask her how is the baby?(when she was pregnant) she said ' oh, I had an abortion' Like it was no big deal, I know people need counseling for that. She says all these guys propose to her. She says that all her boyfriends used to hit her. She says her step dad used to hit her. She said her cousin just died but her sister told me he's doing fine.
She said she has cancer and has had chemotherapy, and she didn鈥檛 want to tell her mum. Now she said the cancer is not active. She said her mom was dying.
Ironic all this, because her mom is a nurse. So I think that鈥檚 where she would know all these health problems.
She says her boyfriend has cancer. She said she was molested when she was younger. She鈥檚 has have waaay to many abortions from what she has told me... I recently told my mom all this, because I can鈥檛 talk to anyone else about it really.
She said she has to have open heart surgery.
And so much more lies... I know they are because the story doesn鈥檛 match up and if they were all real her mom would tell me and I would hear more about the story.
She admitted to me a while ago, when she first met me she mad up some lies to impress people.
I go along with it, because I don鈥檛 want to say 'that鈥檚 not true' to her. I support her and stuff but its actually allot to handle having a best friend that has all these problems and I go out of my way to support her, now I fee used. She says her dads a millionaire but she has to borrow money.
It鈥檚 stressful for me, cos when I'm trying to have a good career, it gets interrupted by these lies/exaggerated truth that makes me feel sad. Then I realize the stories don鈥檛 match up and it pisses me off. I gave her so much support and sympathy and my parents always thought she was exaggerating the truth and other people, so I believed a liar over everyone else.(long sorry)My best friend makes up big lies, should I still just go along with her?
BS. don't even believe that. if she was going through chemo everyone would know bc she would be progressively losing hair. if i was you i would be like stfu because joking about this stuff isn't funny bc ppl have actually had this stuff and they have to go through it when you're making stuff up for other ppl. honestly stick up for yourself and just tell her to stop bc ppl go through that real stuff and it scars them for life and it's not even funny. like if i were you i would be so pissed especially bc you were so nice to her about it. tell her to stop lying bc it's gonna get her into trouble one day. she's gonna tell the wrong thing to someone and it's not gonna turn out pretty. that's just so shallow how she would actually lie about that stuff. like it's so inconsiderate. i would be fed up if i were you. just tell her to stop. like wow.(long sorry)My best friend makes up big lies, should I still just go along with her?
Whenever she tells a lie, just be like 'Oh yeaa,cool' then dont say anything else, and eventually she wont tell them to you, then you dont have to hear her lies, and hopefully she'll shut her mouth. But you couldd go along with them, but that makes you sound like your interested in them, when you know their not true.
it sounds like shes very insecure about herself and needs some counceling help. she might be mad at you but you need to confront her aout it (nicely) and ask her why she does this and tell her that if you're ever going to be good friends that you need to be open and honest with each other. if shes a good friend shell understand evetually and get help for the problem.Siam Esteemed Product Co Ltd kick scooter
Her mom is really nice and is outgoing but none of this was ever mentioned by her mom.
My friend since I've known her seems to get pregnant every two months. And have all these abortions. I ask her how is the baby?(when she was pregnant) she said ' oh, I had an abortion' Like it was no big deal, I know people need counseling for that. She says all these guys propose to her. She says that all her boyfriends used to hit her. She says her step dad used to hit her. She said her cousin just died but her sister told me he's doing fine.
She said she has cancer and has had chemotherapy, and she didn鈥檛 want to tell her mum. Now she said the cancer is not active. She said her mom was dying.
Ironic all this, because her mom is a nurse. So I think that鈥檚 where she would know all these health problems.
She says her boyfriend has cancer. She said she was molested when she was younger. She鈥檚 has have waaay to many abortions from what she has told me... I recently told my mom all this, because I can鈥檛 talk to anyone else about it really.
She said she has to have open heart surgery.
And so much more lies... I know they are because the story doesn鈥檛 match up and if they were all real her mom would tell me and I would hear more about the story.
She admitted to me a while ago, when she first met me she mad up some lies to impress people.
I go along with it, because I don鈥檛 want to say 'that鈥檚 not true' to her. I support her and stuff but its actually allot to handle having a best friend that has all these problems and I go out of my way to support her, now I fee used. She says her dads a millionaire but she has to borrow money.
It鈥檚 stressful for me, cos when I'm trying to have a good career, it gets interrupted by these lies/exaggerated truth that makes me feel sad. Then I realize the stories don鈥檛 match up and it pisses me off. I gave her so much support and sympathy and my parents always thought she was exaggerating the truth and other people, so I believed a liar over everyone else.(long sorry)My best friend makes up big lies, should I still just go along with her?
BS. don't even believe that. if she was going through chemo everyone would know bc she would be progressively losing hair. if i was you i would be like stfu because joking about this stuff isn't funny bc ppl have actually had this stuff and they have to go through it when you're making stuff up for other ppl. honestly stick up for yourself and just tell her to stop bc ppl go through that real stuff and it scars them for life and it's not even funny. like if i were you i would be so pissed especially bc you were so nice to her about it. tell her to stop lying bc it's gonna get her into trouble one day. she's gonna tell the wrong thing to someone and it's not gonna turn out pretty. that's just so shallow how she would actually lie about that stuff. like it's so inconsiderate. i would be fed up if i were you. just tell her to stop. like wow.(long sorry)My best friend makes up big lies, should I still just go along with her?
Whenever she tells a lie, just be like 'Oh yeaa,cool' then dont say anything else, and eventually she wont tell them to you, then you dont have to hear her lies, and hopefully she'll shut her mouth. But you couldd go along with them, but that makes you sound like your interested in them, when you know their not true.
it sounds like shes very insecure about herself and needs some counceling help. she might be mad at you but you need to confront her aout it (nicely) and ask her why she does this and tell her that if you're ever going to be good friends that you need to be open and honest with each other. if shes a good friend shell understand evetually and get help for the problem.
My friend makes up stories to experience my reaction.Is there something wrong with that?
My best friend frequently makes up these elaborate stories just to get my reaction and he thinks it funny.He could be an actor because he's so believable.The first few time I couldn't tell,but know that I'm getting to know him better I know when his stories don't correlate.But he's very believable.And he does this all just to see how I'll act.One time he told me he was moving away.Had a picture of the house.Acted really sad,sounded like he was crying and had another friend back it up.More recently,today I texted him something real private and he goes his dad had seen it we were in all this trouble and he was gonna call my mom and all this BS.I was freaking out and he thought it was the funniest thing in the world.Is there something wrong with him?Or is he just an asshole?My friend makes up stories to experience my reaction.Is there something wrong with that?
I think he likes you a lot!!!! thats why he wants to see your reaction in different situations, as a way to get to know you better!!! everybody has a way to that, you just found out what his is!!!
I think he likes you a lot!!!! thats why he wants to see your reaction in different situations, as a way to get to know you better!!! everybody has a way to that, you just found out what his is!!!
How can I help two friends to make up after a fight?
My two friends are in a fight. One is my best friend, one isn't as close to me, but i still like her. I want to stay friends with both of them, but I think they get mad at me when I talk to the other. They had a falling out when my bestfriend started to hang out with my other friend's brother. My other friend thought that the two had an unhealthy relationship so she made a big deal about it to my best friend. My best friend became defiant and stubborn. So both of them are mad at each other.How can I help two friends to make up after a fight?
dont get in the middle let them be... you can still be friends with them just dont mention the other one when your around the otherHow can I help two friends to make up after a fight?
they need to figure it out on their on
you cam judt get them close a littlr by little
Lock them in a room and handcuff them together for exactly one week 3 days 7 hours and 27 minutes!
You just need to tell both of them at the same time.
that you hate the division its tearing you apart,
tell them how much u admire both of thier friendships' maybe they will put thier diffrences aside for you.
;]
best of luck
-courtney
this happened to me we just talked to eachother about our differences and then relized we had more alike and then agreed that we were friends but we did not have to be sisters
give them time to cool off, explain tolerance and maturity to them. kindly advise them that it's not their job to decide what's right for the other , they need to let each other be themselves and let go of the urge to control.
Stay out of it. Trust me. If one starts talking about the other, just say you don't want to get in the middle of it, but if they want your opinion, it's better to not stay angry. Let them make up on their own terms.
You try talking to both of them at the same time. Then you can solve it out. Otherwise talk to each friend alone ( dont lie about the other person) and tell her that you don't like that there both fighting. This happened with my friends too. All I did was invite only them both and they started to get along more along the way.
It may be best to stay out of it.... OR - Let them both know separately some GOOD things each never knew the other thought. Bring them back together by making them MISS and appreciate each other. And it sounds like they need to GROW UP.
All of that ';Oh, she's talking to HIIIIIM! He's talking to HEEERRRR'; is just CRAP.
oh.. my such a complicated situation... by the way let them be as they are.. u can't do anything.. don't do anything and get urself into trouble.. just stay balanced with ur friends..
Stay out of it if you bring in a 3 person into the mix, it really calling the kettle black. Leave them alone it will all resovle.
You can show them that you like each of them, and will not change that just because they cannot get along. Stubbornness is not always the best thing. It is not up to each person who they date. Isn't her brother old enough to make his own decisions?
I would say, boys should never get in the way of friendship. Don't brag and don't belittle. Friends are forever and when two people hold onto grudges, they end up losing. Someone should be the bigger person and apologize. No one is perfect and we are all going to make mistakes.
You do not have to choose one or the other, it is good that you are friends with both. Tell them, it is between them, and you do not want to be in it and you do not want to hear them talk bad about each other to you. Is it really worth fighting over?
Best wishes. Remember, You can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make it drink. You can have difference in opinions and still have a lot in common. Tell them to remember what is really important...
if they are really your friends you should not have to choose in between nether one of them and they will see that you are close with both of them and that will bring them back together
Try to make them realize how much this isn't worth losing a friend over. My best friend had been with my other best friend's older brother off and on for 4 years. They had a TERRIBLE relationship; no trust, she got pretty crazy, almost stalking him, needing to know exactly what he was doing at all times, he yelled at her a lot... You get the idea. Anyway, in the begining, my friend (who had the older brother) felt uncomfortable about it, but she realized pretty quickly that it just wasn't a big deal. Over the years, she stayed out of their relationship. My friend who was dating the brother would go to my other best friend when she wanted to know where he was or would share information about her boyfriend/my friend's brother, and they eventually came to an agreement that they wouldn't talk about private things about the relationship. Yeah, it's going to be uncomfortable for your friend to see her brother with her friend, but she should realize, it's just not worth getting worked up about. If they like eachother, let it be.
Sorry so long, but I hope this helped.
In this case, I don't think you should necessarily help them make up, but let them both know that even though they don't get along right now, that you still want to be friends with both of them. If they consider themselves your friend, they will accept it and not try to put you in the middle. When one friends tries to badmouth the other, just kindly let her know that you don't want any part of it. Try to stay neutral, do not play them against each other. Eventually, this will probably blow over and they will make up, but be aware of your own behavior with each of them in the meantime.
don't get involve. it would only make things worse trust me. let them figure it out
you can try to tell each of them how you liked it when they talked and wish it will go back to normal till then dont mention their name to each other
dont get in the middle let them be... you can still be friends with them just dont mention the other one when your around the otherHow can I help two friends to make up after a fight?
they need to figure it out on their on
you cam judt get them close a littlr by little
Lock them in a room and handcuff them together for exactly one week 3 days 7 hours and 27 minutes!
You just need to tell both of them at the same time.
that you hate the division its tearing you apart,
tell them how much u admire both of thier friendships' maybe they will put thier diffrences aside for you.
;]
best of luck
-courtney
this happened to me we just talked to eachother about our differences and then relized we had more alike and then agreed that we were friends but we did not have to be sisters
give them time to cool off, explain tolerance and maturity to them. kindly advise them that it's not their job to decide what's right for the other , they need to let each other be themselves and let go of the urge to control.
Stay out of it. Trust me. If one starts talking about the other, just say you don't want to get in the middle of it, but if they want your opinion, it's better to not stay angry. Let them make up on their own terms.
You try talking to both of them at the same time. Then you can solve it out. Otherwise talk to each friend alone ( dont lie about the other person) and tell her that you don't like that there both fighting. This happened with my friends too. All I did was invite only them both and they started to get along more along the way.
It may be best to stay out of it.... OR - Let them both know separately some GOOD things each never knew the other thought. Bring them back together by making them MISS and appreciate each other. And it sounds like they need to GROW UP.
All of that ';Oh, she's talking to HIIIIIM! He's talking to HEEERRRR'; is just CRAP.
oh.. my such a complicated situation... by the way let them be as they are.. u can't do anything.. don't do anything and get urself into trouble.. just stay balanced with ur friends..
Stay out of it if you bring in a 3 person into the mix, it really calling the kettle black. Leave them alone it will all resovle.
You can show them that you like each of them, and will not change that just because they cannot get along. Stubbornness is not always the best thing. It is not up to each person who they date. Isn't her brother old enough to make his own decisions?
I would say, boys should never get in the way of friendship. Don't brag and don't belittle. Friends are forever and when two people hold onto grudges, they end up losing. Someone should be the bigger person and apologize. No one is perfect and we are all going to make mistakes.
You do not have to choose one or the other, it is good that you are friends with both. Tell them, it is between them, and you do not want to be in it and you do not want to hear them talk bad about each other to you. Is it really worth fighting over?
Best wishes. Remember, You can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make it drink. You can have difference in opinions and still have a lot in common. Tell them to remember what is really important...
if they are really your friends you should not have to choose in between nether one of them and they will see that you are close with both of them and that will bring them back together
Try to make them realize how much this isn't worth losing a friend over. My best friend had been with my other best friend's older brother off and on for 4 years. They had a TERRIBLE relationship; no trust, she got pretty crazy, almost stalking him, needing to know exactly what he was doing at all times, he yelled at her a lot... You get the idea. Anyway, in the begining, my friend (who had the older brother) felt uncomfortable about it, but she realized pretty quickly that it just wasn't a big deal. Over the years, she stayed out of their relationship. My friend who was dating the brother would go to my other best friend when she wanted to know where he was or would share information about her boyfriend/my friend's brother, and they eventually came to an agreement that they wouldn't talk about private things about the relationship. Yeah, it's going to be uncomfortable for your friend to see her brother with her friend, but she should realize, it's just not worth getting worked up about. If they like eachother, let it be.
Sorry so long, but I hope this helped.
In this case, I don't think you should necessarily help them make up, but let them both know that even though they don't get along right now, that you still want to be friends with both of them. If they consider themselves your friend, they will accept it and not try to put you in the middle. When one friends tries to badmouth the other, just kindly let her know that you don't want any part of it. Try to stay neutral, do not play them against each other. Eventually, this will probably blow over and they will make up, but be aware of your own behavior with each of them in the meantime.
don't get involve. it would only make things worse trust me. let them figure it out
you can try to tell each of them how you liked it when they talked and wish it will go back to normal till then dont mention their name to each other
Should I make up with my old best friend? If so, how should I do it?
Our whole little ball of drama
started when she copied everything I did
and other people too, and
she lost a lot of friends
because everyone started calling her out.
I don't know how it happened,
but me and her got into a physical fight.
(Stupidest thing I couldve done
because now I sound all ghetto,
but I'm not really that kind of girl)
We don't talk, but every now and then
I'll catch her looking at me,
or I'll see something somewhere that
she copied off of me.
I talk about her a lot.
Not in a mean way though.
Like, if something reminds me of her
I'll be like, ';Michelle used to do that';
and stuff like that.
I have absolutely no hard feelings,
and I don't like the feeling of having
someone not like me
who used to be my best friend two years ago.
I don't know, it's weird.
Should I attempt to reconcile with her?
If so, what should I say?Should I make up with my old best friend? If so, how should I do it?
To me it sound like you really miss her. I think you are missing how she was your friend and how she coppied you. If you miss her than of course go to her and tell her. A way you can do it is when you see her (not over phone or internet), go up aqnd tell her one on one how you feel. At the end of expressing your feelings tell her you want to be friends again. If she forgives you (which I think she will) invite her over while you finacee is away, you can have a friend with you for company. Best of luck!!!Should I make up with my old best friend? If so, how should I do it?
It sounds like if you really miss her. What could you loose by talking to her? I would go and talk to her, forgive and forget. Give her another chance, after all, what she did was not real bad. Friends are supposed to help you right?
Best friends are like sisters, you fight, then you make up. Do not try to make things just as they were before. Take baby steps, and try to make things better than before, but remember, baby steps. Hope everything turns out for both of you!
LOOK IT SEEMS DAT U R MISING HER A LOT SO JUS GO N TALK 2 HER HUG HER BE VERY KIND TO HER N THEIRIS NOTHING RONG IN IT OK BE RELAXED.
started when she copied everything I did
and other people too, and
she lost a lot of friends
because everyone started calling her out.
I don't know how it happened,
but me and her got into a physical fight.
(Stupidest thing I couldve done
because now I sound all ghetto,
but I'm not really that kind of girl)
We don't talk, but every now and then
I'll catch her looking at me,
or I'll see something somewhere that
she copied off of me.
I talk about her a lot.
Not in a mean way though.
Like, if something reminds me of her
I'll be like, ';Michelle used to do that';
and stuff like that.
I have absolutely no hard feelings,
and I don't like the feeling of having
someone not like me
who used to be my best friend two years ago.
I don't know, it's weird.
Should I attempt to reconcile with her?
If so, what should I say?Should I make up with my old best friend? If so, how should I do it?
To me it sound like you really miss her. I think you are missing how she was your friend and how she coppied you. If you miss her than of course go to her and tell her. A way you can do it is when you see her (not over phone or internet), go up aqnd tell her one on one how you feel. At the end of expressing your feelings tell her you want to be friends again. If she forgives you (which I think she will) invite her over while you finacee is away, you can have a friend with you for company. Best of luck!!!Should I make up with my old best friend? If so, how should I do it?
It sounds like if you really miss her. What could you loose by talking to her? I would go and talk to her, forgive and forget. Give her another chance, after all, what she did was not real bad. Friends are supposed to help you right?
Best friends are like sisters, you fight, then you make up. Do not try to make things just as they were before. Take baby steps, and try to make things better than before, but remember, baby steps. Hope everything turns out for both of you!
LOOK IT SEEMS DAT U R MISING HER A LOT SO JUS GO N TALK 2 HER HUG HER BE VERY KIND TO HER N THEIRIS NOTHING RONG IN IT OK BE RELAXED.
Can anyone help me make up a rhyme for a friend?
So this may sound weird but my friend has a gf and he is planning on hooking up with her but he dusnt know how to unhook a bra. So i told him that id give him one of my old ones to practice on. I was planning on puttin it in a bag and giving it to him. The problem is that i wanted to put a little rhyme in the bag with it. Something along the lines of practice makes perfect and good luck but thought it would be funny if it rhymed. Catch my drift? Think you can do it answerers?? I do giv best asnwers.Can anyone help me make up a rhyme for a friend?
Hope it works out with you and your friend
I'll be here for you till the very end.
Practice makes perfect and everything more,
So hope this'll help you with this daunting new chore!!!
ya, it's corny, but I tried ;DCan anyone help me make up a rhyme for a friend?
bend, blend, end, ende, fend, lend, mend, mende, penned, rende, send, spend, tend, trend, wend, wende
This things holds tit$
If you mess up, your blown to bits.
Go ahead give it a tug
if it doesn't work give her a mug
Hope it works out with you and your friend
I'll be here for you till the very end.
Practice makes perfect and everything more,
So hope this'll help you with this daunting new chore!!!
ya, it's corny, but I tried ;DCan anyone help me make up a rhyme for a friend?
bend, blend, end, ende, fend, lend, mend, mende, penned, rende, send, spend, tend, trend, wend, wende
This things holds tit$
If you mess up, your blown to bits.
Go ahead give it a tug
if it doesn't work give her a mug
FACEBOOK: How to make friend adds show up on wall?
For some reason, when I get a new friend it doesn't show up on my wall like everyone else's does saying like:
Mike is now friends with Jason
How do you fix that? I can't find it in settings so please be specific as u can.
thanksFACEBOOK: How to make friend adds show up on wall?
There is no setting for it, because you can't tell it not to post on your wall.
Either there is an error in which you should contact Facebook.
Or the person who became friends with you, removed you from their friends, so the notification has been removed from your wall.
Mike is now friends with Jason
How do you fix that? I can't find it in settings so please be specific as u can.
thanksFACEBOOK: How to make friend adds show up on wall?
There is no setting for it, because you can't tell it not to post on your wall.
Either there is an error in which you should contact Facebook.
Or the person who became friends with you, removed you from their friends, so the notification has been removed from your wall.
What's with all the girl advice on how to get men?
Seriosuly. I've been reading answers on this forum mention stuff like ';building long-term relationships'; ';respect'; ';ask him about homework'; ';zOMG! HE TOTALLY LOVES YOU';
Let me tell you something about your advice. IT WON'T WORK. And here's why: Men only want to get laid. Unlike women, we love trough sex, not kisses.
If the guy has a penis and he doesn't want to use it, he is not a man but only a boy. The only way to get a man interested is to convince him that you will sleep with him, and him alone. But only if he makes a reasonable effort (sluts and virgins are equally bad girlfriends). And that's the bottom line. Don't let others fool you. Convince him you'll be a slut to him and a saint to his friends, and he will crawil and fight for you (considering you have decent looks, which is the second factor we care about). The ';feelings'; and ';commitment'; speech is something we memorize to disguise our intentions of getting you pregnant.
Now, my question for you, women: Why do you give advice when it's clear you don't know what you're talking about. How many men have fallen for you using the advice you gave? How many years have you lived with a man to know so much about ';the signs';? Do you realize that high-school boys are very different from grown up men, and that all the things they say or do could or could not mean anything?
Next time you answer something, think for a while. How many times has this worked for me? If the answer is 0, don't type anything. Thank you. Oh, and google the Ladder Theory.What's with all the girl advice on how to get men?
dont worry, we wont expect you to be one of the honorable men who have respect %26amp; love for women %26amp; who will contribute conscientiously to this society by properly raising a family.
you are a loser.What's with all the girl advice on how to get men?
i hope you don't actually take all the answers seriously?? i mean, idk about some girls, but i just get a nice paragraph written out about all that ';commitment'; and ';learn to trust each other'; and ';tell him how you feel'; crap, then copy and paste for my 2 points XD
but i dunno about the other women, but i am fully aware of the mindset of guys....
it's just nice to BS your way through life sometimes, and pretend like thing are what they are not.
P.S: apologies if i didn't answer the ';question'; correctly... i didn't bother reading that chunk of text you wrote out...
OK first, not all guys are as shallow as you, so speak for yourself, OK? And second... just shut up.
PS. Im generally a nice person but this just made me mad.%26gt;:(Siam Esteemed Product Co Ltd kick scooter
Let me tell you something about your advice. IT WON'T WORK. And here's why: Men only want to get laid. Unlike women, we love trough sex, not kisses.
If the guy has a penis and he doesn't want to use it, he is not a man but only a boy. The only way to get a man interested is to convince him that you will sleep with him, and him alone. But only if he makes a reasonable effort (sluts and virgins are equally bad girlfriends). And that's the bottom line. Don't let others fool you. Convince him you'll be a slut to him and a saint to his friends, and he will crawil and fight for you (considering you have decent looks, which is the second factor we care about). The ';feelings'; and ';commitment'; speech is something we memorize to disguise our intentions of getting you pregnant.
Now, my question for you, women: Why do you give advice when it's clear you don't know what you're talking about. How many men have fallen for you using the advice you gave? How many years have you lived with a man to know so much about ';the signs';? Do you realize that high-school boys are very different from grown up men, and that all the things they say or do could or could not mean anything?
Next time you answer something, think for a while. How many times has this worked for me? If the answer is 0, don't type anything. Thank you. Oh, and google the Ladder Theory.What's with all the girl advice on how to get men?
dont worry, we wont expect you to be one of the honorable men who have respect %26amp; love for women %26amp; who will contribute conscientiously to this society by properly raising a family.
you are a loser.What's with all the girl advice on how to get men?
i hope you don't actually take all the answers seriously?? i mean, idk about some girls, but i just get a nice paragraph written out about all that ';commitment'; and ';learn to trust each other'; and ';tell him how you feel'; crap, then copy and paste for my 2 points XD
but i dunno about the other women, but i am fully aware of the mindset of guys....
it's just nice to BS your way through life sometimes, and pretend like thing are what they are not.
P.S: apologies if i didn't answer the ';question'; correctly... i didn't bother reading that chunk of text you wrote out...
OK first, not all guys are as shallow as you, so speak for yourself, OK? And second... just shut up.
PS. Im generally a nice person but this just made me mad.%26gt;:(
Scorpio man in love with scorpio woman?Is he really or just love her as a friend?
A bit confused here!
We are both scorpio, friends since school and meet again after years! The situation between us was never clear as we were companion, we were never together as a couple but....there was allways an intesity for example.....although he had girlfriend he was getting mad when i was close to a boy, getting aggressive with me etc. when he heard from a friend of me 2 years before i was seriously with a man now, he lost his temper and got sick (by the way he asked to learn because he saw her with me once somewhere :P).
Now we met after years and talk for some months constantly i observe we r a bit obsessed with our communication. And now is the time i need your opinion....
WHile we just simply talk friendly way..He sends me love songs many times, he throws sometimes on the air he loves me, he repeats that how beautiful and clever i am....he throws mean things about my boyfriend (oftern compares to him) and me dont know what to say or do. He is very flirty generally , he has always been so i dont take him seriously....but i see he gets angry when i do that and i start thinking he is a bit serious indeed! After that he cuts communication for days or although he is chatting avoids talk to me...and after that he wakes me up in the middle of the night with messages at my cell phone ...';hey baby...how r u!Have a nice day! or happy new month!:P';...at
4 am!He always repeats that he cares so much about me being happy !
Due to the fact we r both scorpios we communicate excellent but feel both vulnerable...so hiding! Is like a constant hide and seek!My intuition says is not so simple thing!And i dont want neither loose the communication with him nor exposing me ....
Is he really in love?Is he just so much loving his friend?Is he find challenging winning a scorpio girl ?or make her prefer him ?i dont know what to think cause he is so mysterious....and lol im sure he things same about me!what is going on?at allScorpio man in love with scorpio woman?Is he really or just love her as a friend?
horoscopes are fakeScorpio man in love with scorpio woman?Is he really or just love her as a friend?
It's possible that he loves you. In a Scorpio (especially male), it's all in their eyes. If they constantly stare at you, then they like and want you. Scorpio men get very jealous and are likely to throw fits if someone he loves flirt with other people. One false move and the Scorpio man is very hurt. They're extremely sensitive.
It seems that he does want you and he is jealous about you and your boyfriend. Whenever you cross a Scorpio man, they tend to get revenge and do harsh pranks at you.
YYYYYYYYYYYEP, he has feelings for you. Theres almost no doubt about that.
I guess you two just never seem to be single at the same time?
Scorpio guys arent really so possessive of women that they arent attracted to. Theyd be as possessive and jealous with female friends as male friends unless they have feelings for them, then things get a little more intense, and he seems to be behaving this way with you, so..
We are both scorpio, friends since school and meet again after years! The situation between us was never clear as we were companion, we were never together as a couple but....there was allways an intesity for example.....although he had girlfriend he was getting mad when i was close to a boy, getting aggressive with me etc. when he heard from a friend of me 2 years before i was seriously with a man now, he lost his temper and got sick (by the way he asked to learn because he saw her with me once somewhere :P).
Now we met after years and talk for some months constantly i observe we r a bit obsessed with our communication. And now is the time i need your opinion....
WHile we just simply talk friendly way..He sends me love songs many times, he throws sometimes on the air he loves me, he repeats that how beautiful and clever i am....he throws mean things about my boyfriend (oftern compares to him) and me dont know what to say or do. He is very flirty generally , he has always been so i dont take him seriously....but i see he gets angry when i do that and i start thinking he is a bit serious indeed! After that he cuts communication for days or although he is chatting avoids talk to me...and after that he wakes me up in the middle of the night with messages at my cell phone ...';hey baby...how r u!Have a nice day! or happy new month!:P';...at
4 am!He always repeats that he cares so much about me being happy !
Due to the fact we r both scorpios we communicate excellent but feel both vulnerable...so hiding! Is like a constant hide and seek!My intuition says is not so simple thing!And i dont want neither loose the communication with him nor exposing me ....
Is he really in love?Is he just so much loving his friend?Is he find challenging winning a scorpio girl ?or make her prefer him ?i dont know what to think cause he is so mysterious....and lol im sure he things same about me!what is going on?at allScorpio man in love with scorpio woman?Is he really or just love her as a friend?
horoscopes are fakeScorpio man in love with scorpio woman?Is he really or just love her as a friend?
It's possible that he loves you. In a Scorpio (especially male), it's all in their eyes. If they constantly stare at you, then they like and want you. Scorpio men get very jealous and are likely to throw fits if someone he loves flirt with other people. One false move and the Scorpio man is very hurt. They're extremely sensitive.
It seems that he does want you and he is jealous about you and your boyfriend. Whenever you cross a Scorpio man, they tend to get revenge and do harsh pranks at you.
YYYYYYYYYYYEP, he has feelings for you. Theres almost no doubt about that.
I guess you two just never seem to be single at the same time?
Scorpio guys arent really so possessive of women that they arent attracted to. Theyd be as possessive and jealous with female friends as male friends unless they have feelings for them, then things get a little more intense, and he seems to be behaving this way with you, so..
How do I make up with my best friend?
I'm 14 and I have been friends with this girl that's my age and I have known her sense I was like 2. Her birthday was a few weeks ago and I went to her house to see her but the whole time I was there she just talked to her boyfriend on the phone when I never get to see her sense we live about 45 minutes away from each other. So a few days after her birthday I sent her a message on myspace about how it made me feel bad that she did that and I wasn't mean about it I just told her. She got so mad at me that shes not talking to me and its been like a month. I really want to send her a message on myspace because I'm not comfortable calling her, but what do I say it I send her a message? How do I make up with my best friend?
Tell her that she shouldn't let such a stupid thing get in the way of your friendship. Like you said, you've known her ever since you were 2, you've been through so much with her and its not worth it to just throw this friendship away over some guy.
Tell her you understand she has a boyfriend and that she wants to talk to him and stuff but also remind her that your her best friend and that she needs to make some time for you too especially since you guys live so far away, its not everyday that you get to see each other.
Tell her you weren't trying to be mean or anything, only that you simply miss your best friend and wish she would spend some time with you too. Tell her that you want things to go back to the way they were and tell her to give you a call sometime to talk things over.
If she's a true friend she will understand. However, if your best friend continues to ignore you then maybe its time you move on, she doesn't deserve your time and effort.How do I make up with my best friend?
give her space
just ask her if shes mad at you and you didnt mean to make her mad
Well first tell her you are sorry if you upset her , but you were telling how you felt and explain that you were used to being so close her that it really upset you when she did not give you the time of day..However remember when we get a boyfriend or girlfriend we usually are not trying to be mean to anyone else in our life we just want to spend all of our time with the boyfriend or girlfriend.so after you send your message give her some time i am sure things will work out.
Well, since its been about a month, its probably given her a chance to cool off (even though what you said shouldn't make someone get mad, let alone make them not talk to you for a month). I think you should send her a message on Myspace, and validate her points on why she's mad (even though it may be difficult) but validate your points as well. Then go into telling her that shes your best friend, and that you care about her a whole lot.
Good luck :)
messages on myspace are never the best way to fix something. if you want to make up with her i suggest calling her.
explain to her how her talking on the phone with her the boyfriend the whole time instead of hanging out with you hurt your feelings. if she is a goood friend she will understand. also tell her that you dont want to ruin your friendship with her over something so silly.
remember- the boyfriends that you have when you are 14 dont last forever, but your friendships do.
the best thing to do is apologize, in person. she has a boyfriend, naturally she wants to talk about him. when you get a boyfriend you want to talk about him also. just get over it.
Tell her that she shouldn't let such a stupid thing get in the way of your friendship. Like you said, you've known her ever since you were 2, you've been through so much with her and its not worth it to just throw this friendship away over some guy.
Tell her you understand she has a boyfriend and that she wants to talk to him and stuff but also remind her that your her best friend and that she needs to make some time for you too especially since you guys live so far away, its not everyday that you get to see each other.
Tell her you weren't trying to be mean or anything, only that you simply miss your best friend and wish she would spend some time with you too. Tell her that you want things to go back to the way they were and tell her to give you a call sometime to talk things over.
If she's a true friend she will understand. However, if your best friend continues to ignore you then maybe its time you move on, she doesn't deserve your time and effort.How do I make up with my best friend?
give her space
just ask her if shes mad at you and you didnt mean to make her mad
Well first tell her you are sorry if you upset her , but you were telling how you felt and explain that you were used to being so close her that it really upset you when she did not give you the time of day..However remember when we get a boyfriend or girlfriend we usually are not trying to be mean to anyone else in our life we just want to spend all of our time with the boyfriend or girlfriend.so after you send your message give her some time i am sure things will work out.
Well, since its been about a month, its probably given her a chance to cool off (even though what you said shouldn't make someone get mad, let alone make them not talk to you for a month). I think you should send her a message on Myspace, and validate her points on why she's mad (even though it may be difficult) but validate your points as well. Then go into telling her that shes your best friend, and that you care about her a whole lot.
Good luck :)
messages on myspace are never the best way to fix something. if you want to make up with her i suggest calling her.
explain to her how her talking on the phone with her the boyfriend the whole time instead of hanging out with you hurt your feelings. if she is a goood friend she will understand. also tell her that you dont want to ruin your friendship with her over something so silly.
remember- the boyfriends that you have when you are 14 dont last forever, but your friendships do.
the best thing to do is apologize, in person. she has a boyfriend, naturally she wants to talk about him. when you get a boyfriend you want to talk about him also. just get over it.
How can a person make-up with someone she likes since her ex sabatoge a letter that was sent to her friend?
Have had a friend I was e-mailing to, my ex somehow attached a file of mine that shouldn't have been on it and cc it so everyone could see it. What is a girl to do...how can I make up to the person that got hurt in all of this...How can a person make-up with someone she likes since her ex sabatoge a letter that was sent to her friend?
Go ahead and tell him/her that you're not smart enough to avoid this kind of accidents and that he/she should not entrust you with other sensitive data and you will make them public anyway.
Go ahead and tell him/her that you're not smart enough to avoid this kind of accidents and that he/she should not entrust you with other sensitive data and you will make them public anyway.
Lost a bet, and now I have to dress up as a girl for the weekend. Need some help!?
OK, I didn't really ';lose a bet.';. I was talking with a friend of mine, and she was saying how even though a lot of time goes into it, its so great being a girl because of how much fun they have. So she started suggesting that I try being a girl for the weekend. I don't know exactly what all she had in mind, but I know she wants to do shoes, clothes, makeup etc. I don't know what she wants me to do once she gets me all dolled up. I told her no. She called me a wimp, wuss, etc, until I finally gave in a little. I told her I'd try on some heels, as she said that would be one of the worst parts. She found the highest heels she had (5'; platform stilettos), and they were pretty small, but I managed to walk in them pretty well. It didn't take me long to get the hang of it, as I'm an athlete, and I have fairly good balance.
That seemed to satisfy her need for a laugh, and she let it go. But I got to thinking this morning that it might actually be fun to try living a day or two as the fairer sex. My friend is really sweet, and I know she wouldn't try to embarrass me or make me do something I'd regret, so I trust her to take good care of me. Plus, some friends of mine did this for halloween one year, and they had a blast. They really went all out with it too (wig, waxed legs, makeup, etc).
So I have 2 questions for you guys... First off, should I call her and tell her i'll do it? And if I do, what should I be expecting her to do with me? Me making fun of all the stuff women go through is what spawned this whole idea, so what do you think she'll want me to wear or do to make me ';understand what goes into being a woman?'; what would you guys make me wear and do if you were her?
This should be interesting, but how bad could it be?Lost a bet, and now I have to dress up as a girl for the weekend. Need some help!?
I've seen this question before. You have some f*cked up fetishes, dude.Lost a bet, and now I have to dress up as a girl for the weekend. Need some help!?
Dude... It's your call entirely. But I'd suggest that if you're looking for fashion advice for cross dressing you'd still probably be better off in the Beauty / Style section than GWS, no? I mean for all you know the people here, while indeed being very gender opinionated, might have absolutely no fashion sense...
You made my day. Yes you should tell you're in. I have no idea what she would do to you but I think she will be putting you in a dress. I would prbably want to go the who nine-yards with you and I would want to do research into clothes that would make you feel comfortable
BAAAAH BAAAAH
Hahahahahahah:)
I wish i had a guy friend who would do that..
Yeah, you should tell her that you will do it, itll be fun. Plus, you can back out anytime. And like you said, your friend wont take advantage of you, shell just have some fun... haha...
But you should do it for sure.
It's the cutest thing in the world when a guy does that.
I think you should give it a shot, it's always a good time.
Even if it's a fetish of theirs it's still really cute.
Haha that's weird because I know this one dude where he has to wear a dress for a dare! If you do it you will probably get more attention.. if you really need it ;) if you decide not too then people will think your a pussy! lol it wont be that embarresing..
you should really try it. its unfair that only girls can wear dressed :P it sounds like fun, to trick people into thinking you are a girl. you should even flirt with some guys to confuse them :P dont go overboard with a dress, just wear heels, a skirt, a blouse, and jewlery and of course a wig. :)
Hey man, this ought to be much fun, considering the fact that most men would not have the courage to do such a thing. You girl friend will definitely make you wear something girly, like a pink dress, the stilettos, get your nails done, full body wax (for sure buddy) :] , get your eyebrows done, get some hair extensions, and so on and so forth....... Man! I would so enjoy hanging out with my best guy friend dress up all beautiful and so feminine. DO IT :] You will have total blast, trust me. Your friend Lily44 :]
lol go for it it could be fun ^.^
That seemed to satisfy her need for a laugh, and she let it go. But I got to thinking this morning that it might actually be fun to try living a day or two as the fairer sex. My friend is really sweet, and I know she wouldn't try to embarrass me or make me do something I'd regret, so I trust her to take good care of me. Plus, some friends of mine did this for halloween one year, and they had a blast. They really went all out with it too (wig, waxed legs, makeup, etc).
So I have 2 questions for you guys... First off, should I call her and tell her i'll do it? And if I do, what should I be expecting her to do with me? Me making fun of all the stuff women go through is what spawned this whole idea, so what do you think she'll want me to wear or do to make me ';understand what goes into being a woman?'; what would you guys make me wear and do if you were her?
This should be interesting, but how bad could it be?Lost a bet, and now I have to dress up as a girl for the weekend. Need some help!?
I've seen this question before. You have some f*cked up fetishes, dude.Lost a bet, and now I have to dress up as a girl for the weekend. Need some help!?
Dude... It's your call entirely. But I'd suggest that if you're looking for fashion advice for cross dressing you'd still probably be better off in the Beauty / Style section than GWS, no? I mean for all you know the people here, while indeed being very gender opinionated, might have absolutely no fashion sense...
You made my day. Yes you should tell you're in. I have no idea what she would do to you but I think she will be putting you in a dress. I would prbably want to go the who nine-yards with you and I would want to do research into clothes that would make you feel comfortable
BAAAAH BAAAAH
Hahahahahahah:)
I wish i had a guy friend who would do that..
Yeah, you should tell her that you will do it, itll be fun. Plus, you can back out anytime. And like you said, your friend wont take advantage of you, shell just have some fun... haha...
But you should do it for sure.
It's the cutest thing in the world when a guy does that.
I think you should give it a shot, it's always a good time.
Even if it's a fetish of theirs it's still really cute.
Haha that's weird because I know this one dude where he has to wear a dress for a dare! If you do it you will probably get more attention.. if you really need it ;) if you decide not too then people will think your a pussy! lol it wont be that embarresing..
you should really try it. its unfair that only girls can wear dressed :P it sounds like fun, to trick people into thinking you are a girl. you should even flirt with some guys to confuse them :P dont go overboard with a dress, just wear heels, a skirt, a blouse, and jewlery and of course a wig. :)
Hey man, this ought to be much fun, considering the fact that most men would not have the courage to do such a thing. You girl friend will definitely make you wear something girly, like a pink dress, the stilettos, get your nails done, full body wax (for sure buddy) :] , get your eyebrows done, get some hair extensions, and so on and so forth....... Man! I would so enjoy hanging out with my best guy friend dress up all beautiful and so feminine. DO IT :] You will have total blast, trust me. Your friend Lily44 :]
lol go for it it could be fun ^.^
How do I make peace with my ex-best friend/s?
I fell out with my ex-best friend at the beginning of january, we didn't really argue we just stopped hanging out one day we were really close. We never spoke about it ever and no one apologized or whatever (which I really regret I wish I'd said something kind of). So I made friends with her when i started hanging out with her and her group of best friends leaving my older best friends behind. I was with them for about 6 months before I fell out with this girl and went back to old best friends (which was so wrong Of me, should I apologise in case they feel used which they most probably do i'd be surprised if they didn't). But this summer I want to hang out my ex-best friends group with my old best friends (who are my current best friend if that makes sense). I'm still friends with the others I was just out of order as I just left them suddenly. But that won't happen if I don't make peace with my ex best friend.
Shes really sarcastic and laughable about everything so I don't know/feel embarrassed how to apolgise to her. But I don't care if we're not best friends, or even friends, just like an aquaintance ya know? No hard feelings I guess. But how do I make things up with her. its been four months since we were friends so what do I do. Please help xxxHow do I make peace with my ex-best friend/s?
Hi there i am sorry about whats going on.. Making peace with friends following a fight is an important step to maintaining harmonious and happy relations between the two of you. Whether or not you go on to maintain your friendship is a matter for the two of you but it is important to resolve any lasting anger and address it Leave your friend alone for a while. It will make time for both of you to cool off. Also calm yourself off and think about what you want to say to them Call when you're relatively certain that both of you have had ample time to cool off. Be sincere and humble. Apologize for your role in the fight.Make sure to listen carefully to what your friend says. Ready body language and make sure your body language isn't communicating something you don't intend. Situations may not have been as they appeared and there's always room to learn.Do not leave issues unresolved but at the same time know when to take a break. Don't keep pushing for a resolution if its obvious that your friend isn't interested in one. Find a temporary solution and resolve the issue laterTry to lay low for a while, don't start any gossip or anything and do not get involved with any fights or rumors that could damage this friendship more then it is.Also be aware that giving someone time isn't always the best solution. it varies from person to person. Some people, although they try to avoid it, would prefer direct confrontation in order to get the issue resolved.Avoid repetitive use of the word ';you';, it comes off as an attack and will only further insinuate conflict. Don't be defensive. Keep an open mind, despite any strong feelings you may have, its always best to approach a resolution with an open mind. Note your friend's body language, if they're dismissive for most of the time you spend trying to resolve the conflict, take a break. never lie. Lying while trying to make amends is the worst thing possible that you can do. If you did something that they are angry about, apologize for it, really deeply apologize for it, and mean it. Don't try and balance things out between the two of you, it isn't a contest. Both of you have probably done things that have annoyed the other. If you have done something that has offended your friend, accept it, apologize and don't argue with whatever fair retaliation your friend wants. If they want time, give them time, if they want you to keep apologizing, do it. dont appease them and just keep saying 'sorry'. It is still lying to them. if they accuse you of doing something you didn't, tell them. If they say you did something you didn't, tell them you didn't. but dont get angry with them. just stay calm.If your friend has very little reason to be mad at you and you have a big reason to be mad at them just remember to be more mature than your friend. Feeling like the bigger person may even feel better than winning some petty fight. After a you or your friend has not actually cooled off yet. Just calmly admit that more time needs to pass for a truly calm conversation to occur, and walk away, get off the phone, or otherwise end the conversation politely.
Shes really sarcastic and laughable about everything so I don't know/feel embarrassed how to apolgise to her. But I don't care if we're not best friends, or even friends, just like an aquaintance ya know? No hard feelings I guess. But how do I make things up with her. its been four months since we were friends so what do I do. Please help xxxHow do I make peace with my ex-best friend/s?
Hi there i am sorry about whats going on.. Making peace with friends following a fight is an important step to maintaining harmonious and happy relations between the two of you. Whether or not you go on to maintain your friendship is a matter for the two of you but it is important to resolve any lasting anger and address it Leave your friend alone for a while. It will make time for both of you to cool off. Also calm yourself off and think about what you want to say to them Call when you're relatively certain that both of you have had ample time to cool off. Be sincere and humble. Apologize for your role in the fight.Make sure to listen carefully to what your friend says. Ready body language and make sure your body language isn't communicating something you don't intend. Situations may not have been as they appeared and there's always room to learn.Do not leave issues unresolved but at the same time know when to take a break. Don't keep pushing for a resolution if its obvious that your friend isn't interested in one. Find a temporary solution and resolve the issue laterTry to lay low for a while, don't start any gossip or anything and do not get involved with any fights or rumors that could damage this friendship more then it is.Also be aware that giving someone time isn't always the best solution. it varies from person to person. Some people, although they try to avoid it, would prefer direct confrontation in order to get the issue resolved.Avoid repetitive use of the word ';you';, it comes off as an attack and will only further insinuate conflict. Don't be defensive. Keep an open mind, despite any strong feelings you may have, its always best to approach a resolution with an open mind. Note your friend's body language, if they're dismissive for most of the time you spend trying to resolve the conflict, take a break. never lie. Lying while trying to make amends is the worst thing possible that you can do. If you did something that they are angry about, apologize for it, really deeply apologize for it, and mean it. Don't try and balance things out between the two of you, it isn't a contest. Both of you have probably done things that have annoyed the other. If you have done something that has offended your friend, accept it, apologize and don't argue with whatever fair retaliation your friend wants. If they want time, give them time, if they want you to keep apologizing, do it. dont appease them and just keep saying 'sorry'. It is still lying to them. if they accuse you of doing something you didn't, tell them. If they say you did something you didn't, tell them you didn't. but dont get angry with them. just stay calm.If your friend has very little reason to be mad at you and you have a big reason to be mad at them just remember to be more mature than your friend. Feeling like the bigger person may even feel better than winning some petty fight. After a you or your friend has not actually cooled off yet. Just calmly admit that more time needs to pass for a truly calm conversation to occur, and walk away, get off the phone, or otherwise end the conversation politely.
How do i make up with my (ex)best friend after a argument months ago?
Long story short, I over reacted and took crap the wrong yeah but i was to strong willed (stubborn) to just say im fcking sorry.
Now its been months and i was okay not being her friend, but now im going through a rough patch in life and you know what...i need her..i have no other good enough friends like her..just we fell out back in october, x-mas is coming up, i just want everything to be good and happy . We fell out lke this a few days before the summer one day, and she went to poland for the summer before we made up...before x-mas..no this weekend i want to make up...
help? im afraid to just walk up to her, and theres no good time for me to do it, i mean i dont wanna just walk up to her and she shots me down in front of ppl..How do i make up with my (ex)best friend after a argument months ago?
make this happen in private ... just apologize bary the hatchet asy it was wrong and it wasnt worth it to argue
GOOD LUCK
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Now its been months and i was okay not being her friend, but now im going through a rough patch in life and you know what...i need her..i have no other good enough friends like her..just we fell out back in october, x-mas is coming up, i just want everything to be good and happy . We fell out lke this a few days before the summer one day, and she went to poland for the summer before we made up...before x-mas..no this weekend i want to make up...
help? im afraid to just walk up to her, and theres no good time for me to do it, i mean i dont wanna just walk up to her and she shots me down in front of ppl..How do i make up with my (ex)best friend after a argument months ago?
make this happen in private ... just apologize bary the hatchet asy it was wrong and it wasnt worth it to argue
GOOD LUCK
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Keeping make up on while crying and hot heat?
i'm graduating this thursday, and i was wondering if there are any home remedies or super cheap foundations [powder], blush, eyeliner [maybe], mascaras, that will stay on after all the crying, hot sun, etc. i also have pretty oily skin and i think that's one of the reasons why my make up doesnt stay on as long as its supposed to. i remember watching something with miss usa crying really hard and her make up still stayed on. i've always wanted to know how the heck she did that.
does anyone know how to keep their make up on after crying and/or a long hot day w hich includes sweat? oh, and if you do have any home remedies for oily skin or eye bags. feel free to share.
[im going on a make up shopping spree with my friend at target on sunday, so im hoping the stuff you guys suggest will be found there]
thanks so much!Keeping make up on while crying and hot heat?
Benefit has this Lacquer that you apply...(i use it) and it keeps everything in place even after you rub your eyes while you are crying.
Also, WonderCurl Maybelline mascara stays on forever and ever and ever....(I am a swimmer and it doesn't smudge even after swimming...but its really hard to take off.)
Best waterproof eyeliner is this Herbal Eyeliner in plum color (Salley Beauty supply.)
For ';cheap'; apply a toner with a high concentration of alcohol in it all over your face (even lips and all around eyes) and then apply your make up. The alcohol does something. (my lips never smudge.)Keeping make up on while crying and hot heat?
Look for waterproof mascaras and cream eyeshadows and blushes. As for foundation, any kind will work. Then just put powder on top, I reccomend Neutrogena's powders.
Why don't u use mascara and lipstick that is a long lasting make-up. Use maybelline volume mascara waterproof. It never lets me down. Don't use cheaper brands because they will ruin ur face and will come off quickly. Try being very calm during ur graduation and don't stress. Use that lipfinity lipstick, i think that is a long lasting lipstick. Use rimmel eyeliner pencils, they stay long i think. The only time they try to fade is when u wash ur face with water. Use maybelline powder, that will not show ur oily face but if its a hot weather then u can't blame ur face for being too oily. Thats something u can't control unless u go to ur doctor and he/she will prescribe u with a special cream for ur oily face. Use famous brands like Rimmel, Maybelline, Covergirl, Loreal, Australis and Maxfactor. With the rest of the make-up, put anything u like as long as they r those expensive make-up (the brands that i used above). Good luck!
I have oily skin and I am an easy crier. I wear Revlon Colorstay foundation, eyeshadows powder and eyeliner. Then I apply Maybelline Great Lash waterproof mascara. Its the best. And when you cry, just wipe under your eyes. Don't wipe over your whole eye.
does anyone know how to keep their make up on after crying and/or a long hot day w hich includes sweat? oh, and if you do have any home remedies for oily skin or eye bags. feel free to share.
[im going on a make up shopping spree with my friend at target on sunday, so im hoping the stuff you guys suggest will be found there]
thanks so much!Keeping make up on while crying and hot heat?
Benefit has this Lacquer that you apply...(i use it) and it keeps everything in place even after you rub your eyes while you are crying.
Also, WonderCurl Maybelline mascara stays on forever and ever and ever....(I am a swimmer and it doesn't smudge even after swimming...but its really hard to take off.)
Best waterproof eyeliner is this Herbal Eyeliner in plum color (Salley Beauty supply.)
For ';cheap'; apply a toner with a high concentration of alcohol in it all over your face (even lips and all around eyes) and then apply your make up. The alcohol does something. (my lips never smudge.)Keeping make up on while crying and hot heat?
Look for waterproof mascaras and cream eyeshadows and blushes. As for foundation, any kind will work. Then just put powder on top, I reccomend Neutrogena's powders.
Why don't u use mascara and lipstick that is a long lasting make-up. Use maybelline volume mascara waterproof. It never lets me down. Don't use cheaper brands because they will ruin ur face and will come off quickly. Try being very calm during ur graduation and don't stress. Use that lipfinity lipstick, i think that is a long lasting lipstick. Use rimmel eyeliner pencils, they stay long i think. The only time they try to fade is when u wash ur face with water. Use maybelline powder, that will not show ur oily face but if its a hot weather then u can't blame ur face for being too oily. Thats something u can't control unless u go to ur doctor and he/she will prescribe u with a special cream for ur oily face. Use famous brands like Rimmel, Maybelline, Covergirl, Loreal, Australis and Maxfactor. With the rest of the make-up, put anything u like as long as they r those expensive make-up (the brands that i used above). Good luck!
I have oily skin and I am an easy crier. I wear Revlon Colorstay foundation, eyeshadows powder and eyeliner. Then I apply Maybelline Great Lash waterproof mascara. Its the best. And when you cry, just wipe under your eyes. Don't wipe over your whole eye.
How can you make up with your best friend after a major fight and they haven't spoken to you in two months
i have been there a million times. Just call them and invite them out. Friends have a funny way of falling right back into habit...even after a year.How can you make up with your best friend after a major fight and they haven't spoken to you in two months
i have no idea. me and my best frind broke up and we have not spoken sinse then. but it depens on what you are fighting aboutHow can you make up with your best friend after a major fight and they haven't spoken to you in two months
depends.....sorry i can't help, ask again.....but with more info.
i have no idea. me and my best frind broke up and we have not spoken sinse then. but it depens on what you are fighting aboutHow can you make up with your best friend after a major fight and they haven't spoken to you in two months
depends.....sorry i can't help, ask again.....but with more info.
Advice on how I can make up with my best friend?
My best friend and I had major fallout little over a year ago. He was an underage heavy drinker who almost got himself into trouble. I told his mother about his drinking. He threaten to hurt me so I had to file a restraining order to protect myself. He became an alcoholic. We were best friends almost five years. We were inseparable. He turns twenty-one on August 10th. The both of us hang together with our friends. We still have not talked at all. Now, he shows no sign of anger or a grudge. I tried to talk to him once and he covered his ears. I miss talking and hanging with my friend a lot. He was like a younger brother to me.Advice on how I can make up with my best friend?
it seems he has also started to realise that u were thinking for his benefit.
i think you should just write down your feelings on a paper.and put some emotional things in it. i m sure he misses u to he jst wnt a good situation to make up things.so write it on a paper and then give him to it with a gift or something on his birthday.hope this would help.Advice on how I can make up with my best friend?
Best to just let it lie as it is.
You did the right thing by getting him help. But it would never be the same again.
Even though you helped him. He will never admit to it.
Even though deep down he knows. It would take too much work to get it back. You would probably almost have to apologize to him for helping him, to become friends again.
There are plenty of other people in the world.
Just move on.
Dont stalk him just call him a few times or send a text. I was planning on saying it will work out over time if you just treat him with respect but im not sure I would wanna be friends with all thats happened...
Man...I know what you're going through. Doing the right thing is a lonely road. But its so worth it.
Your friend needed help and you tried to help him. One day he'll realize that you were a REAL friend. Don't go back and try to undo what you've done. It was the right thing to do. It was the only thing a real friend could do.
You might try telling him how you feel in a card or a letter, but he sounds way too selfish to be a really good friend to you. You deserve to be friends with someone who will be a friend to you. You may have to let him go...
In the future, try just calling friends ';good friends'; instead of best friends. Sometimes we put so much into being ';best'; friends. If every friend you have is good, they are equally important...you value each one for different things. No one person fills every single need you have. That's the cool thing about having several friends.
It still hurts, but...it is what it is...hang in there.
it seems he has also started to realise that u were thinking for his benefit.
i think you should just write down your feelings on a paper.and put some emotional things in it. i m sure he misses u to he jst wnt a good situation to make up things.so write it on a paper and then give him to it with a gift or something on his birthday.hope this would help.Advice on how I can make up with my best friend?
Best to just let it lie as it is.
You did the right thing by getting him help. But it would never be the same again.
Even though you helped him. He will never admit to it.
Even though deep down he knows. It would take too much work to get it back. You would probably almost have to apologize to him for helping him, to become friends again.
There are plenty of other people in the world.
Just move on.
Dont stalk him just call him a few times or send a text. I was planning on saying it will work out over time if you just treat him with respect but im not sure I would wanna be friends with all thats happened...
Man...I know what you're going through. Doing the right thing is a lonely road. But its so worth it.
Your friend needed help and you tried to help him. One day he'll realize that you were a REAL friend. Don't go back and try to undo what you've done. It was the right thing to do. It was the only thing a real friend could do.
You might try telling him how you feel in a card or a letter, but he sounds way too selfish to be a really good friend to you. You deserve to be friends with someone who will be a friend to you. You may have to let him go...
In the future, try just calling friends ';good friends'; instead of best friends. Sometimes we put so much into being ';best'; friends. If every friend you have is good, they are equally important...you value each one for different things. No one person fills every single need you have. That's the cool thing about having several friends.
It still hurts, but...it is what it is...hang in there.
My best friend can never make up her mind?
My best friend is a really nice girl. Her and I went to the same junior high and we went to different high schools. I love being around her! Except that she can get very grumpy at times. One moment she will agree with me then maybe the next day she goes against me. Also she loves attention and that doesn't really bug me. I honestly could care less about attention. The annoying thing is she will do many things for attention. How can I tell her that some of the things she does to me is really annoying and a little hurts me a little? I don't want to be mean.My best friend can never make up her mind?
my friend was a bit like that but i didnt mind telling her that she annoyed me or hurt me, but i guess you could do it as a joke type tone to see what the reaction is if its like she dosnt care then get more seriours do it on different day like one when she is against you and the other day when shes ok with you see if the reaction changes to see if it bothers her that she is hurting you. see how it goes
my friend was a bit like that but i didnt mind telling her that she annoyed me or hurt me, but i guess you could do it as a joke type tone to see what the reaction is if its like she dosnt care then get more seriours do it on different day like one when she is against you and the other day when shes ok with you see if the reaction changes to see if it bothers her that she is hurting you. see how it goes
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
How can i make up with my best friend?
me and my best friend at uni have not got along this term at uni. we used to be an inseparable pair but we kept falling out this term. his dad took a heart attack before the term started and since then he has changed. he no longer hangs out with me as much, who knows literally everything about him. he hangs out with my other housemate more just this year. i became jealous and we fell out four weeks ago because the change in him was too much to bear. i said in anger that i no longer wanted to be his friend anymore.
this hurt him immensely but i did not mean it. he said that he cannot forgive me atm because we had fought too much and he thought i was going to hurt him again, that was4 weeks ago. he did say afterwards that he was stressed so i am leaving him to calm down over christmas. will he want to be friends again?How can i make up with my best friend?
oh, i'm sorry with your situation. I think that at this time, friendship and sympathy are whatt he needs most so you should be calm and make up with him in the most friendly way. Direct apology seems difficult in this case, if i were you, i would send him the song '; Apology- Timberland ft OneRepublic';
( I love this song very much!) with the message that '; The lyric of this song is also what I want to tell you. I believe that everything will be alright. Forgive me and I hope we will be together again! ';. I think he will understand you. Good luck!How can i make up with my best friend?
write him a really sweet letter:)
Buy him a present for christmas and tell him that you are really sorry and should have been more understanding after his family crisis. Apologise, and try to make it up to him. :o)
Good luck!
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this hurt him immensely but i did not mean it. he said that he cannot forgive me atm because we had fought too much and he thought i was going to hurt him again, that was4 weeks ago. he did say afterwards that he was stressed so i am leaving him to calm down over christmas. will he want to be friends again?How can i make up with my best friend?
oh, i'm sorry with your situation. I think that at this time, friendship and sympathy are whatt he needs most so you should be calm and make up with him in the most friendly way. Direct apology seems difficult in this case, if i were you, i would send him the song '; Apology- Timberland ft OneRepublic';
( I love this song very much!) with the message that '; The lyric of this song is also what I want to tell you. I believe that everything will be alright. Forgive me and I hope we will be together again! ';. I think he will understand you. Good luck!How can i make up with my best friend?
write him a really sweet letter:)
Buy him a present for christmas and tell him that you are really sorry and should have been more understanding after his family crisis. Apologise, and try to make it up to him. :o)
Good luck!
write him a letter with use of quotations.
Fallen out with a friend =[ .. How to make up?
Ive been mates with this boy for years..I used to like him %26amp; he knew. But he didnt feel the same way. But weve been good mates ever since.. %26amp; i still had feelings, but the past months i can honestly say i have LOVED just being friends becuase we get on better.
We was going to go cinema together and it got messed up at the last minute. (Totally not my fault! everyone agrees).. he said to my mate last week he didnt want to go with me anymore thats why we didnt go..)
But basically I miss him SO MUCH!. I cry most days. I texted him the next day saying sorry.. but no reply. I tryed to talk to him at school but he shouted NO and carried on walking. and since then we havent spoke.
Everyone says forget about him (how?) But weve been mates so long %26amp; had lots of memories, all my mates are still mates with him so its hard to see him everyday and have him dislike me.
How i can get his friendship back now? Or try and forget about him. I wanna be friends with him more then anything =[Fallen out with a friend =[ .. How to make up?
awwiee im going through this with one of my guy frienddss
except mine does a lot more meanier stuff
umm
1.you can either try and talk to him and MAKE him listen
2.have one of your friends ask him whats with the way hes been treating you
then its all on himmFallen out with a friend =[ .. How to make up?
if hes fallen out with you
over what ?
We was going to go cinema together and it got messed up at the last minute. (Totally not my fault! everyone agrees).. he said to my mate last week he didnt want to go with me anymore thats why we didnt go..)
But basically I miss him SO MUCH!. I cry most days. I texted him the next day saying sorry.. but no reply. I tryed to talk to him at school but he shouted NO and carried on walking. and since then we havent spoke.
Everyone says forget about him (how?) But weve been mates so long %26amp; had lots of memories, all my mates are still mates with him so its hard to see him everyday and have him dislike me.
How i can get his friendship back now? Or try and forget about him. I wanna be friends with him more then anything =[Fallen out with a friend =[ .. How to make up?
awwiee im going through this with one of my guy frienddss
except mine does a lot more meanier stuff
umm
1.you can either try and talk to him and MAKE him listen
2.have one of your friends ask him whats with the way hes been treating you
then its all on himmFallen out with a friend =[ .. How to make up?
if hes fallen out with you
over what ?
How can I make up with my best friend?
Okay so, I have a best friend, we'll call her Jess, and I was involved with a boy, let's call him Luke. Right, so the other night, Jess texted me saying, ';I'm not arguing but I'm always the last too find out about you and Luke and what's happened between you two.'; This isn't true because I sent her and my friend the exact same text about all the things she had said to me, but this didn't help and then she just kicked off at me. I tried my best to calm her down, but she has anger issues. Then, I was feeling really bad so I told my friend, Tom, and then he tried to comfort me. The next morning I was supposed to be going out with all my friends, but I found out that they had ditched me and were planning to go out without me. Then, Jess texted me again saying, ';I can't believe you, why have you been saying all this crap too Tom? It's none of his buisness,'; When in fact all I said to Tom was that they were mad at me and that I wasn't going out. Since then I haven't been in contact, and I really need your help. This girl is my best friend, and I don't want too loose her! Please help me, I'll be so grateful!How can I make up with my best friend?
If she were our best friend she'd believe you. She din't.
I think even if you go back to her, you'd be treated as a beggar and not a friend.
Its your self respect that's more than a friend.
respect your self and mind your job %26amp; they would know you better in your absence.
Cheers.
If she were our best friend she'd believe you. She din't.
I think even if you go back to her, you'd be treated as a beggar and not a friend.
Its your self respect that's more than a friend.
respect your self and mind your job %26amp; they would know you better in your absence.
Cheers.
Help me make up with my best friend?
So basicly i stayed at my friends house last night and when i woke up i got ready as usual and straightend my hair.. but i accidently left the straightners onher new bedding sheets and throw that cost quite a bit and left burn marks on them!!!
I was scared what she would say so i turned it over but when i got home she found them and now she wont speak to me :( Ive text her so many times offering to pay and saying how sorry i am but i dont know what else to do!
she wont even reply to my texts .. what shall i do :( im so sad :(Help me make up with my best friend?
try talking directly with her instead of texting
I was scared what she would say so i turned it over but when i got home she found them and now she wont speak to me :( Ive text her so many times offering to pay and saying how sorry i am but i dont know what else to do!
she wont even reply to my texts .. what shall i do :( im so sad :(Help me make up with my best friend?
try talking directly with her instead of texting
I want to make up with my best friend, but don't know how...?
Okay. So we got in a fight about 3 weeks ago. And I don't know. I just can't handle not talking to her anymore. She was here the other day to pick some stuff she left at my house, and it was SO awkward 'cause neither of us said a word.
At the same time, I'm not quite sure if I want to apologize really. I mean, she's become best friends with this other girl, while I've started hanging out with some new people. Plus, I seriously feel like we can't even talk anymore (this was before we got in a fight) and we were kinda going separate ways. What should I do? I mean, I'm happy with my new friends, but at the same time, a small part of me misses her. After all, I've known her practically my whole life and she was always there for me, well... Up till recently... But yeah. Still... HELP!I want to make up with my best friend, but don't know how...?
Damn. I so know how you feel.
This has happened to me with a friend; and it was basically the same exact situation.
My friend and I literally went through the same thing, nto talking, new friends, so on; and I felt just like you. I was happy but I just missed her and I didn't appologize but just messaged her (yes on myspace lol but it worked) and told her how I hated us not tlaking when we got along so well and that our fight was dumb and that she knew it even if she didnt want to admit it, and I knew it as well. and that as best friends we shouldn't let stupid trivial things get in the way.
and we ended up meeting at like starbucks i think and just sat and talked outside at one of the tables for like 4 hours; and yes there were tears, but it was needed. And this was after like a whole year of not talking. I thought the feeling would go away and it never did; even if you don't end up best friends you can still be chill. And it will be awkward like no other, but at least she'll be there when you really need her to be, and she'll be there when you really want her to be( even if your not best friend forever anymore).
And if she doesn't then she's a B and you shouldn't let someone like that get to you because she obviously isn't a good enough person to handle things like adults.
Good luck, and just keep a level head and be honest; because that feeling (sorry to say) does just eat at oyu.I want to make up with my best friend, but don't know how...?
Well it depends.... think about why you guys fought in the first place and clear that up first. Everything else will fall into place.
Call her and just say HI. Invite her over for movies. Really, mature people just don't hold grudges like this. Invite her to a Spa Weekend or something. You'll get over it. No one has to apologize for anything. You just move on.
At the same time, I'm not quite sure if I want to apologize really. I mean, she's become best friends with this other girl, while I've started hanging out with some new people. Plus, I seriously feel like we can't even talk anymore (this was before we got in a fight) and we were kinda going separate ways. What should I do? I mean, I'm happy with my new friends, but at the same time, a small part of me misses her. After all, I've known her practically my whole life and she was always there for me, well... Up till recently... But yeah. Still... HELP!I want to make up with my best friend, but don't know how...?
Damn. I so know how you feel.
This has happened to me with a friend; and it was basically the same exact situation.
My friend and I literally went through the same thing, nto talking, new friends, so on; and I felt just like you. I was happy but I just missed her and I didn't appologize but just messaged her (yes on myspace lol but it worked) and told her how I hated us not tlaking when we got along so well and that our fight was dumb and that she knew it even if she didnt want to admit it, and I knew it as well. and that as best friends we shouldn't let stupid trivial things get in the way.
and we ended up meeting at like starbucks i think and just sat and talked outside at one of the tables for like 4 hours; and yes there were tears, but it was needed. And this was after like a whole year of not talking. I thought the feeling would go away and it never did; even if you don't end up best friends you can still be chill. And it will be awkward like no other, but at least she'll be there when you really need her to be, and she'll be there when you really want her to be( even if your not best friend forever anymore).
And if she doesn't then she's a B and you shouldn't let someone like that get to you because she obviously isn't a good enough person to handle things like adults.
Good luck, and just keep a level head and be honest; because that feeling (sorry to say) does just eat at oyu.I want to make up with my best friend, but don't know how...?
Well it depends.... think about why you guys fought in the first place and clear that up first. Everything else will fall into place.
Call her and just say HI. Invite her over for movies. Really, mature people just don't hold grudges like this. Invite her to a Spa Weekend or something. You'll get over it. No one has to apologize for anything. You just move on.
How can l make up to my best friend?
well, my school is probably the only high school that still makes kids give valentines to each other, which is what we did today. anyways, we were passing out cards and i wanted to see the card that she was going to give her boyfriend, so i snatched it out of her hand and she reached for it, and being that i have quick reflexes, i put the held the card up in the air, making her miss the card and reach for my breast. the unfortunate thing was that her boyfriend was looking and saw her hand on my breast and now thinks that shes a lesbian and wont talk to her. i know i cant buy her forgiveness, but are there any nice gifts under $10 that i can pair with an apology to help her feel better?How can l make up to my best friend?
you can go to an store's seasonal isle and get stuff under $10.
Wsh you all the best!How can l make up to my best friend?
well if they r still togather u should get 1 of her boyfriends freinds to say something like hey we should go out 2 eat and you should say to ur friend the same thing but then u only get a table 4 2 and have ur friend and her boyfriend eat togather
You sound like a crap friend.
If she didn't want to show you what was in the card, respect that. You shouldn't have snatched the card that was for her BOYFRIEND. It WASN'T for you. Get that into your head.
Also, despite saying ';i know i cant buy her forgiveness';, you're basically wanting to buy her forgiveness for under $10, even if you do deny it.
Find your own way to make it up to her.
But I doubt she would forgive you. If I was her, I wouldn't even bother with you.
AYO YOU MAAAD NOSY. YOU BEST BE BUYIN' GIFTS OVER TEN BUCKS.loan officer kick scooter
you can go to an store's seasonal isle and get stuff under $10.
Wsh you all the best!How can l make up to my best friend?
well if they r still togather u should get 1 of her boyfriends freinds to say something like hey we should go out 2 eat and you should say to ur friend the same thing but then u only get a table 4 2 and have ur friend and her boyfriend eat togather
You sound like a crap friend.
If she didn't want to show you what was in the card, respect that. You shouldn't have snatched the card that was for her BOYFRIEND. It WASN'T for you. Get that into your head.
Also, despite saying ';i know i cant buy her forgiveness';, you're basically wanting to buy her forgiveness for under $10, even if you do deny it.
Find your own way to make it up to her.
But I doubt she would forgive you. If I was her, I wouldn't even bother with you.
AYO YOU MAAAD NOSY. YOU BEST BE BUYIN' GIFTS OVER TEN BUCKS.
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