How can i make-up with my best friend?

My best friend who i have known since i was 3yrs old so 19years we have been best friends and now because i never went to visit her once on her day off she has fallen out with me and said she doesn't want to know, the reason why i never went is because i was really ill and i told her this and she said i was making it up and using it as an excuse, how can i make up with her i said all the apologies i can with her and she doesn't want to know, shall i even bother with her anymore? she also does live an hour away with me and i have no job and couldn't afford to go she was going to pay but i couldn't pay her back i also told her this, nothing she doesn't care anymore.How can i make-up with my best friend?
Sounds like you've said all you can. It sure isn't your fault. Plus it doesn't even sound like that big of a deal. She's overreacting. I'd let it go. She'll come around.How can i make-up with my best friend?
If she doesn't care, why do you? Ignore her. I know you want to make-up, but pretend like you don't care at all, and you'll see what happens.
Dont bother wiv her anymore, its not worth the trouble ur doing 2 make it up 2 her
Some people don't catch on, they rather just pretend.


While things are going smooth, they smile and call you 'friend'.


Funny how you never know who cares until it hurts, and when it's over,


Does it matter who blew off who first?

How can i make my friend ease up a bit on me?

Me and my friend have been close fr ages, her dad and my mum even when to high school together. We were really close until i started getting more attention, and i grew up. She says i changed. Now everything i do she critizes and everything i say either offends her or she comes back with ';omg your so dumb'; what do i do? she ws never like this beforeHow can i make my friend ease up a bit on me?
tell her how you feel and ask what's upHow can i make my friend ease up a bit on me?
I agree that you should mention it to her, but my hunch is that she is in such a place that she won't listen to you or look at it as another one of *your* flaws. Maybe the approach is to ask her why she speaks to you like this and if it makes her feel good to have a friend she sees as being so dumb. Then mention that you don't speak to her that way and would appreciate it if she could give you the same consideration or you'll have to spend your time with people who appreciate you more.
Tell her that those comments hurt you. If she doesn't stop, quit spending time with her.

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Trying to make up with a great friend i screwed up kinda sis/brother thing?

i known her for 2 years very cute but just great Freinds kinda sis/brother deals but i seams wanted more kinda bit more i can get. she didn't want that %26amp; shut me out for while %26amp; i completely shut my self down in misery coz i cared to much but i new what i have done she ment lot but i fell to emotions that i couldent have or she thought just tryin to et her that way but o well i f up. she found out how miserable i was %26amp; seams but very slowly trying to requantins kinda idk just like starting over as friends i know she needs to trust me again %26amp; feel confortable but on my part what really kills me is that shes been hanging with her friends more often %26amp; im very scared that if thios friendship kinda works again she only wants me as chatter box IM %26amp; every once while hang out. I don't want that i want to have kinda same moment of doing things with her like her friends but i can't handle that fraid to just walk away. i know this is to early but just how i fell but i know i f up. she tells me just relax %26amp; chll take it slowly so idk. Just want to be great buddies sis/brother thing but she says en time bu kills me being at home while shes hanging with her other friends kinda what the blank about us least interacting more but i know im pulling the gun to soon i know i have to face this what her demands are kinda redeem my self but its killing me, how long does this usually takes ?Trying to make up with a great friend i screwed up kinda sis/brother thing?
Keep your pimp hand way strong bro, slap dat ho!

How can i make-up with my best friend?

My best friend who i have known since i was 3yrs old so 19years we have been best friends and now because i never went to visit her once on her day off she has fallen out with me and said she doesn't want to know, the reason why i never went is because i was really ill and i told her this and she said i was making it up and using it as an excuse, how can i make up with her i said all the apologies i can with her and she doesn't want to know, shall i even bother with her anymore? she also does live an hour away with me and i have no job and couldn't afford to go she was going to pay but i couldn't pay her back i also told her this, nothing she doesn't care anymore.How can i make-up with my best friend?
Sounds like you've said all you can. It sure isn't your fault. Plus it doesn't even sound like that big of a deal. She's overreacting. I'd let it go. She'll come around.How can i make-up with my best friend?
If she doesn't care, why do you? Ignore her. I know you want to make-up, but pretend like you don't care at all, and you'll see what happens.
Dont bother wiv her anymore, its not worth the trouble ur doing 2 make it up 2 her
Some people don't catch on, they rather just pretend.


While things are going smooth, they smile and call you 'friend'.


Funny how you never know who cares until it hurts, and when it's over,


Does it matter who blew off who first?

How can i make my friend ease up a bit on me?

Me and my friend have been close fr ages, her dad and my mum even when to high school together. We were really close until i started getting more attention, and i grew up. She says i changed. Now everything i do she critizes and everything i say either offends her or she comes back with ';omg your so dumb'; what do i do? she ws never like this beforeHow can i make my friend ease up a bit on me?
tell her how you feel and ask what's upHow can i make my friend ease up a bit on me?
I agree that you should mention it to her, but my hunch is that she is in such a place that she won't listen to you or look at it as another one of *your* flaws. Maybe the approach is to ask her why she speaks to you like this and if it makes her feel good to have a friend she sees as being so dumb. Then mention that you don't speak to her that way and would appreciate it if she could give you the same consideration or you'll have to spend your time with people who appreciate you more.
Tell her that those comments hurt you. If she doesn't stop, quit spending time with her.

Trying to make up with a great friend i screwed up kinda sis/brother thing?

i known her for 2 years very cute but just great Freinds kinda sis/brother deals but i seams wanted more kinda bit more i can get. she didn't want that %26amp; shut me out for while %26amp; i completely shut my self down in misery coz i cared to much but i new what i have done she ment lot but i fell to emotions that i couldent have or she thought just tryin to et her that way but o well i f up. she found out how miserable i was %26amp; seams but very slowly trying to requantins kinda idk just like starting over as friends i know she needs to trust me again %26amp; feel confortable but on my part what really kills me is that shes been hanging with her friends more often %26amp; im very scared that if thios friendship kinda works again she only wants me as chatter box IM %26amp; every once while hang out. I don't want that i want to have kinda same moment of doing things with her like her friends but i can't handle that fraid to just walk away. i know this is to early but just how i fell but i know i f up. she tells me just relax %26amp; chll take it slowly so idk. Just want to be great buddies sis/brother thing but she says en time bu kills me being at home while shes hanging with her other friends kinda what the blank about us least interacting more but i know im pulling the gun to soon i know i have to face this what her demands are kinda redeem my self but its killing me, how long does this usually takes ?Trying to make up with a great friend i screwed up kinda sis/brother thing?
Keep your pimp hand way strong bro, slap dat ho!

How to make up with an old friend?

I had a guy friend whom I was talking to for a period of time. We had an attraction for one another, but couldn't be together because I just got out of a relationship. Eventually I was the one who was ready and he wasn't ready along with the fact that he moved 6 hrs away. I lost interest and told him I wanted to just remain friends. He was hurt and then got mad when he found out I began dating another guy 2 weeks later. He thought I was secretly seeing the other guy and he wouldn't believe what I told him otherwise. I also got mad at him for writing about what happened between us on his Xanga for all our friends to see, which he denied was ';trash talking';. We got into a huge argument and that last thing I remember him telling me was that I had better do something real big if I still want to be his friend. We haven't talked for 2 yrs since then and part of me wants to salvage our friendship, but I don't know if I even should or if I do, how to approach him. Please help.How to make up with an old friend?
First you need to decide if you really want to keep this relationship between you two. If so, you need to talk to him in person. Invite him out for a cup of coffee, and give him a sincere talk about how you feel and what you would like to happen, and perhaps that you are sorry about what happened between you two. If he won't take time to even hear you out, then he is the wrong guy for you.